(This post is mainly targeted at self shippers /yumeshippers who are very sexual,hyper sexual, constantly think abt/do sexual things or in general have a stronger sexual attraction than romantic (like me being aroallo) etc)
Idk who needs to hear this but
- your f/o wouldn't hate u for being sexual, they wouldn't think ur "dirty" or "disgusting" or "a wh0re" they still love u either way
- your f/o wouldn't mind if a lot of ur thoughts about them are sexual , the fact that you even think about them in the first place brings them so much joy!!! ^^
- your f/o wouldn't shame u or find u "disgusting" for having a certain kink as long as ur safe and as long everything is consensual
-your f/o knows and recognizes that you love them deeply even if you're very openly sexual, even if most of the attraction u feel is sexual that doesn't erase the deep love and care you have for ur f/o and ur f/o knows it!!
- your f/o will always do their best to help u with anything u need , they will always love u and be understanding no matter what, they will always be by ur side, they would never stigmatize u or hate u! Especially for something u can't control, your f/o will make sure that u feel safe and loved
- you are allowed to be as freaky or horny over that fictional character all u want, loving them sexually doesn't mean that u "love them less" than someone who likes that character platonically or romantically
!! Your f/o loves u, no matter what they know ur a good person and know ur trying to be the best u can be !!
