T H E -B O O K-T H A T-S A V E D-ME Sounds dramatic that lol when I say it out loud it even makes me chuckle but really on a serious note this book saved my life and my children's ,it's the best book I have ever read in my whole life without a doubt. If anyone is wandering about their relationship if your gut is screaming at you that something isn't right but your not sure it's abuse because he's not hit you etc !!! get this book read it and put your mind at ease either way , you won't regret reading it I promise. I always knew something wasn't right about my relationship but I just put it down to that's just the way they are , I just blamed myself and plodded on for 10 years until one day I thought NO! I cannot take this anymore I actually thought I'd rather be dead than live walking on eggshells blaming myself condoning vile actions put downs and constant blame for ever nothing I did was good enough and never would be. Now instead of crying all the time walking on eggshells and living in turmoil myself and my children have a calm peaceful home where we respect each other and we can all be ourselves. #lundybancroft #lundy #domesticviolence #books #separationabuse #emotionalabuse #mentalabuse #mentalhealth #truth #narcissisticabuse #narcabuse #narcissist #healing #suiside #whendadhurtsmom #tdas #womensaid #uksaysnomore #childabuse #verbalabuse