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The limited second edition of ✨Explicit Permission✨ is here & ready for gifting! Plus 7 sweet back patches made by @antlereditions of @ameliamartin’s perfect book cover design. . . 🎉 Explicit Permission is a workbook/zine all about sexuality & desire & consent. Illustrated by @ameliamartin // handprinted & bound locally by @lisahersey at @antlereditions. . . ⭐️ $24 each for workbooks & $12 each for back patches includes free shipping. . . 💕 20% of proceeds will go to my lovely neighbors The Brick House which offers youth programming like drop-in community time, leadership building, and family support in Turners Falls, Mass. . . 🌈 keepitconsensual.bigcartel.com or link in bio until Instagram inevitably takes my link down 🙄 . . 📦 Put your orders in quick for the gift-giving season! . . #sexcolumn #keepitconsensual #pleasureposishops #sexeducatorlife #valleyvspot #mywork https://www.instagram.com/p/BqsnIUXBmpmatzksYPzBEi19t5PaxmZex93npE0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1uzz53dljigb3

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😬 So you’re in a non-monog relash and you’re starting to resent your partner’s partner but you’re just over here trying to be ✌🏼chill ✌🏼... ohhhhh maaaannn .... . . . 🛠 “Addressing building resentments with ‘chillness’ is like trying to patch a flat tire with a piece of gum — that shit is not even going to work, so let’s not crank up the Britney and turn on our left blinker like we are about to merge back onto the healthy relationship highway with that thing, because you are not”... . . ✨ Link in bio until IG breaks it or on yanatallonhicks.com/blog . . #valleyvspot #sexeducatorlife #sexcolumn #sexadvice #sexcolumnist . . . http://yanatallonhicks.com/2018/11/metamour/ https://www.instagram.com/p/BqOW00FB4-ptVDydDWH-DbErXNPouysOMKFycY0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=bc80c568iqdb

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The limited second edition of ✨Explicit Permission✨ is coming & pre-sale prices/orders are now available! . . 🎉 Explicit Permission is a workbook/zine all about sexuality & desire & consent. Illustrated by @ameliamartin // handprinted & bound locally by @lisahersey at @antlereditions. . . ⭐️ $20 each for pre-sale, now until November 19th. 20% of proceeds will go to my lovely neighbors The Brick House which offers youth programming like drop-in community time, leadership building, and family support in Turners Falls, Mass. . . 🌈 keepitconsensual.bigcartel.com or link in bio until Instagram inevitably takes my link down 🙄 . . 📦 All orders will be sent to you well before the holiday gift-giving season! . . #sexcolumn #keepitconsensual #pleasureposishops #sexeducatorlife #valleyvspot #mywork (at Brickhouse) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bp2D5FlBnZOsfqtqGHnlmw0BniOliiRYOetzBA0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=nfpwlv86vrfi

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✨In this week’s #valleyvspot ~~ does good D mean it’s meant to be? . . “The first 6-ish months of a relationship is basically a sex-and-drug-fueled infatuation party except instead of weed, we’re getting real high on dopamine — a naturally occurring chemical in the body that’s released when we’re forming fresh and exciting sexual and emotional connections with a new lover. . . As our relationship progresses, some of these chemical connections can fade and what rises to the surface can either result in deeper commitment to an ongoing relationship or, our pop of sexual sizzle can fade to reveal well, not much worth holding onto”... . . 💥 Read this week’s #sexcolumn ~~ yanatallonhicks.com/blog . . . http://yanatallonhicks.com/2018/09/theone/ (at The Valley Advocate) https://www.instagram.com/p/BntPd6slC2A04KtB-ssPCQaKjTO5UyP-e-TtBM0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=hprpins29esh

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💦 Back from the beach and back onto this week’s #valleyvspot where a reader wants to know how to stop squirting already .... . . "No matter how many trending pieces of hipster journalism tell you how the squirting G-Spot orgasm is THE BEST THING EVER IN THE WHOLE WORLD, the truth of the matter is that you don’t have to like it. . . You don’t have to want it. You don’t even have to want to like it. . . Your sexual pleasure is for you to determine so, if you want to avoid vaginal ejaculation because it’s simply too messy for you, that’s totally fine". . . http://yanatallonhicks.com/2018/07/nosquirt/ . . #keepitconsensual #sexeducator #sexeducatorlife #valleyvspot #sexcolumn #sexcolumnist (at The Valley Advocate)

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✨ In this week’s #valleyvspot >> . . “Your traumatic experiences are not inherently linked to your kinky desires. . . 🗣 One more time for the Freuds in the back: traumatic experiences do not give someone a Case of the Kinkies (gasp!)”. . . #sexeducatorlife #keepitconsensual #everydaykink #sexcolumn #sexeducator . . http://yanatallonhicks.com/2018/07/exploringkink/ (at The Valley Advocate)

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✨ In this week’s #valleyvspot >> . . “Your traumatic experiences are not inherently linked to your kinky desires. . . 🗣 One more time for the Freuds in the back: traumatic experiences do not give someone a Case of the Kinkies (gasp!)”. . . #sexeducatorlife #keepitconsensual #everydaykink #sexcolumn #sexeducator . . http://yanatallonhicks.com/2018/07/exploringkink/ (at The Valley Advocate)

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✨ In this week’s #valleyvspot >> . . “Your traumatic experiences are not inherently linked to your kinky desires. . . 🗣 One more time for the Freuds in the back: traumatic experiences do not give someone a Case of the Kinkies (gasp!)”. . . #sexeducatorlife #keepitconsensual #everydaykink #sexcolumn #sexeducator . . http://yanatallonhicks.com/2018/07/exploringkink/ (at The Valley Advocate)