"unpopular" or just random thought: making Lilith an abusive uncomplicated evil figure who doesn't understand love and is obsessed with childbearing is kind of meh in an era where Lilith is now often read as a feminist symbol
I agree to an extent. I think there is a way to put a spin on Lilith while using her new “feminist icon” image. Because while the legend of Lilith has been revisited by modern-thinking audiences and given a new meaning, Lilith on Shadowhunters is very much a demon. A greater demon, with personality and goals, but a demon still. I wouldn’t have changed that.
In any case, I still agree that Lilith wasn’t given the nuance she could’ve had. I don’t mind exploring how her misogynist curse (inability to conceive) destroyed her psyche after all these years. It’s an interesting concept, considering she is known as Mother of All Demons.
But I would’ve been interested in seeing the female characters challenge Lilith’s feminist-dressed agenda. In 3A, Lilith talked a big game about not kneeling to a man, how a man ruined her, and all that jazz. Only, she didn’t mind hurting women - or sexually abusing men. I wish Clary or Izzy or Maia had called her out on that. Clary, especially, since Lilith put the Twinning Rune on her without her consent.
Another thing that could’ve been done is contrasting Lilith with Maryse, as both are mother figures. Even bring on Jia, talk a little bit more about Jocelyn. If we’re going to explore motherhood, make it a theme of the season. Contrast the different mother figures on the show.
And, for the love of god, don’t make Lilith pass on curses by kissing her victims. She is literally the only female demon we’ve had. No need to sexualize her evilness when no male demon has been seen smooching their victims into submission.












