Okay so I can kind of see how saying female bodied isn't ideal (along the lines of intersex erasure) but as a non-binary person I find it useful to be able to talk about my experiences as a female (indicating that I have female sex organs and am read and treated as female in society). I have always used the terminology as female\male\intersex = sex and man\woman\girl\genderfluid\trans man\masculine\feminine\androgynous = some of the many terms to describe gender.
Sorry it took me a while to respond to this!!
I’ve addressed this issue somewhat in a few other asks, most recently and I think most succinctly here.
The term I use to refer to the fact that I was raised as though I were a girl is “dfab” which means “designated female at birth” and pretty much covers all the bases you’re talking about without equating body to gender in any way.
My understanding is that “designated female/male at birth” (dfab/dmab) and (for intersex people) “coercively assigned female/male at birth” (cafab/camab) are widely accepted inclusive terms within the queer (and specifically trans) community for the shapes of our bodies.
It’s definitely important to be able to talk about our assigned sex, and our experiences based on being treated that way, but we don’t need to use cisnormative language to do that.