vibin' @incubusofficial "aqueous transmission and thinking about when i finally decided to leave the shore. i was tired of the same old thing every day. i was tired of making the same decisions that my peers with kids made because they had to to provide security for their families or because thats what was expected. status quo. let me make this clear: the status quo is a construct. its not real. but heres the deal... the only person i have is myself and the only security i need is a savings account. everything else is extraneous. wrapping my head around that was the catalyst for shoving off! but really, no matter if you have kids or not, your quality of life is so much more important than falling into the same hole as everybody else because thats what is "normal". but nothing will ever change until you DECIDE let go and leave the shore of familiarity. . . . . #leavetheshore #callingbullshit #letgo #incubus #lazygirllifestyle #dreambig #singirlpreneur #singlegirls #singuypreneur #singleguys #30something #nokids #fuckthestatusquo