smilingaradia said: Basically… Though for some reason people have always come to me for relationship advice. I’m just like, well, I can google that for you and talk theoretically? Literally anyone else here has more experience with this. And now there’s more sex talk. I've found that the aro/ace perspective on relationships is something that can be surprisingly helpful when peeps are to distracted by allo feelings. Idk, solutions that seem obvious to me have taken some peeps by surprise. mewmewimakitty said: Sometimes I kinda forget romance is a thing because, you know, sometimes it just doesn’t come up for a bit. And then I’m reminded and it’s like… wow… this really is a thing… It’s so jarring, it feels as though it lacks context and continuity with the rest of life. I suppose it must be like a thread, or a drive, or something, that sort of… matches the rest of life. Goes with it. But it feels like a note out of key to me. Yo that's a really good way to describe it! that's exactly how it feels :0
