You're out of touch, I'm out of time
I feel you, Daryl Hall & John Oates. But not as much as the inevitable dread of entering a new decade of life. Yes, I'm saddened to say that we'll be leaving the whimsical, haphazard and irresponsible self of yester-decade and replacing it with some sort of corporate approved even more lifeless puppet of a self. Is that it, we're just going to roll over and die from an attack like that?
Let's see what this echo chamber of a blog has to say about that.
While it's true that we haven't made the most optimal choices over the last 10 years and we're in the midst of coming to grips with not only the regret of such decisions but also their consequences, the optimist would say this is an ideal learning opportunity to become a better man in the coming decade. I've heard that snake oil pitch before, but then again what's the alternative? Perhaps we're not good at taking on advice, irrespective of whether we make the effort to do so or not.
Surely, there would be some optimal choices that one could derive certain principles that can guide the future? Employment is certainly one of them, yet I can't bring myself to say that's a complete success. The employer is… a fickle one, let;s put it that way. Stay on their good side and continue running the race, get on their bad side and you're off to Noddy Land by two.
Oddly enough, I am reminded of the different ages in Age of Empires, where each age has specific constraints and options avaialble. Does one go for a steady progression to the next age, or risk it for the brisket & attempt to rush the enemy for an early win? The consequences can be dire in either case, requiring additional mitigations as to whether the risk was managed well or not. Indeed, it all comes down to that word once again: Risk. You could even say it's the very thing we've been trying to avoid for the last 10 years.
Suppose you knew the outcome of certain decisions you had to be making, would you try to defy destiny or march relentlessly into whatever the universe has prepared for ye? The question would be is which path is the right one, for it's always a mix of the two that makes a man worth his value. But when to apply which strategy, and how do we know if one's value has truly hits its apex? Perhaps it's there we find the ugly answer: You don't know, you will never know and choosing an option is the only way forward, even if you find out it's wrong in the end.
The idea of taking any action in a world of such uncertainty is preposterous. Yet, that is what we are called to do everyday: Make a decision in a world of varying quantities of unknowns. For if the fool makes a choice and results in 100 repercussions, would that be any better than the bystander who made no choice at all?
What of the peers, enemies and the rest of the crowd that is always around us, regardless of whether we want them around or not? While it's easy to look to them for the right way forward, that should only be the route in lieu of one's own goals. After all, how would you even know if they've nailed down what they're after?
All in all, it seems nobody really knows what they're doing - which is hardly a surprise. But, we are still called to make a choice to move forward, correct or not. Risk is the name of the game for the next 10 years, one might initially assess. But it's not the risk itself, but the choices and mindest that entail the presence of said risk. Learn to control it and doors will be made open one way or another.
'Til next time, young padawan.
Now that I think about it, I don't think I've ever actually eaten a guava before.