#softeningchat

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i hate diet culture so much. i hate how everyone steamrolls over my "i don't like talking about dieting." i hate seeing vibrant, beautiful personalities turn into someone who only talks about their weight loss. i hate when people brag abt how little they've eaten. i hate being expected to fawn over ppl for being on a crash diet. i hate when women go "hahah, i just don't really eat!" i hate when ppl use coffee or cigarettes to suppress their appetite and think that's healthy. i hate when i see the pain in my friend's eyes because someone around them lost weight and they feel Too Fat by comparison. i hate when people assume I'm unhealthy because im fat. i hate that this is something i've had to deal with since i was 7. i hate when fat people, stranded in a culture that villifies every aspect of their being, are asked to clap and cheer for thinness.

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when she's desperate to suck your dick but has to fight the fat belly she put on you to get at it 😵‍💫

(author's note: this is about lesbians)

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loooove girls who cum fast. like i can make you cum twice on my fifteen minute break and still have half of it left to get water and run my fingers over your still, sensitive, soft, trembling self? hello? cute??

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y'know, sometimes i feel so smug being a feedist and having a healthy, relaxed relationship with food. like oh, you eat one meal a day? you feel a deep twinge of guilt when you eat sweets? you think about calories all day? you're always tired and stressed bc you're chronically undereating in the name of health? Well, I'm eating whatever I want when I want. I'm eating breakfast and zipping through work. I'm eating a big lunch and a big dinner and crushing my productivity goals. I'm eating breakfast, lunch, and dinner, I'm eating snacks, I'm loving myself, and I'm loving life

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Love how round I get after a big dinner 🤤 best feeling in the world. . . (life update after the cut!)

so march is never good for me but this one is TERRIBLE, i've been sick for weeks, our home got flooded with dirty water and we have to move unexpectedly, and I busted my knee up something fierce this weekend so moving is gonna be extra painful 😭😭😭 all that to say that i might be less active on here/replying to messages for a few weeks so just a heads up! I'm not going anywhere despite tumblr's best efforts, if you wanna buy me a meal to make sure I don't lose any weight while moving send an ubereats giftcard to [email protected] 💚

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my wife has been keeping me so well-fed lately. . . i'm always waking up feeling heavy from binging at dinner the night before, and within an hour of me waking up she'll go out for "coffee" and bring back at least two breakfast sandwiches for me, and then my belly will be pressing into my desk the whole time while I'm working which makes me hungry 😵‍💫 but she keeps the fridge stocked so I can graze on fatty cheese and sandwiches and leftovers she saves for me, and when she gets home from work she usually makes drink a couple beers with dinner (which is always as much food as I can eat), and so I fall asleep completely stuffed in her lap with her hand on my belly. And the next day I wake up full and heavy and it all starts again. . .

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what better feeling in the world is there then nervously/hornily confessing to your wife that you actually really ruly want to be her barely mobile housewife, and that after you settle into a home you love and get it the way you want it, you want to gain until you need her help for almost everything, you want to be so fat that it's instantly clear to everyone you're her overfed pet, you want to devote yourself to food and excess and purest hedonism and make wine and grow tomatoes and grow enormous. and then you open your eyes and she's rock hard?

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jaw is on the floor at the pic tumblr's fav blobwives at their blobbiest to date~

your second chin has so completely eclipsed your actual chin that it's only natural a third would start forming to outpace it too, right? as if you didn't already look cherubic enough 🫠

just a lil winter weight, you're just ensuring warmth for the frigid winter, one roll at a time 😵‍💫

honestly im more a dough wife. . . but i am looking cherubic and my lips are getting the fatty pouty look, which i love, and my wife is also very soft right now. to my absolute joy my wife has started to get really into making dough (pizza dough and bread) and im. i had lost weight and was at like 273 but now I'm at like. 285 and i'm fucking swollen with fat.

It's kind of crazy because somehow i don't feel that fat at all really. but getting off the couch is difficult, i cant keep up with anyone when we walk places, and clothes are just not fitting me. Fifteen pounds away from 300. . .