Still not sold on this group run thing
This is some ramblings that have flowed from a Lanni Marchant blog post I was reading, so I’m linking up with thinking out loud today. Woohoo!
I was a lone wolf, but for the best part of the past 2 years I had traded in my ways and ran with a pack.
Now I’m getting in more than my fair share of alone time while in Europe, and I’m definitely salivating in it.
Elite runner, Lanni Marchant, posted on her blog yesterday that she’s typically a lone wolf runner who occasionally breaks it up and runs in packs (usually for training camps).
These lines really emphasized the main problems with running in a pack, that I’ve personally experienced anyway:
If it is an easy day, don’t be that jerk who runs two steps in front of your friends.
…there’s always at least 1 jerk who does this. Save it for race day cowboy.
If it is a hard day, don’t feel bad if your hard effort causes you to stretch away from the group a little bit.
…there’s always at least 1 jerk who gives you eyeroll for doing this.
At the worst of times, I’ve often felt like you’re guilted into shame if you run ahead of your group in workouts.
Or on the opposite spectrum, you’re made to feel worthless and insignificant if you run behind the group on an easy day (some people like to run their long runs at close to race pace, only to underperform when it comes to an actual race. But that’s a topic for another day).
Thankfully my coaching group paceandmind caters to both solo and group approaches, as flexibility is what I prize most.
Lonely runs? Not with scenery like this
So that's the worst of times covered. People talk a lot about the best of times in their blog posts. So we all know what the benefits are of pack running. I would expand on the benefits but I’ll leave this to my wife Alison 😉 She wrote a balanced blog post on group running vs solo running recently, after having experienced both within a short timeframe.
I rarely see balanced blog posts. I see all of these other blog posts on why you should join a run group.
But everyone’s too scared to be the one to admit that it doesn’t work for them. Kind of like how everyone’s too scared to say that open offices are a shit idea (that trend is finally starting to turn in the past year).
Guess what? If you’re too scared, you’re not going to find out what you’re capable of. Contrary to what’s been the status quo wisdom for 1000’s of years, fear actually constrains goals.
Do what you want and train how you want, in the way that works for you!
Sounds simple, so why do we ignore it? If you’re training to somebody else’s way you’re just holding yourself back. As long as you’re tolerant and respectful to others, then what have you got to worry about?
You want friends? Is that what you’re worried about? Here’s news - if people don’t respect you for quietly being different, they’re not your friends anyway.