I'm a feminist.
That doesn't mean I think women are the best gender. That doesn't mean I hate men. That doesn't mean I think women should get higher pay than anyone else. It means I want equality. I don't want to have to hear anyone objectifying anyone's body. I don't want to hear people saying someone else is lesser because of their gender or sex. I want all genders/sexes to be able to lead a country, I want everyone to be accepted as who they are. That's what feminism is and if someone says it's about women being better, obviously they've gotten the extremist side of feminism. But guess what? There's an extremist side to everything. That doesn't define the whole thing. People aren't defining Christianity by the Westboro Baptist Church, so why define feminism by the unfortunate extremists?