Hey uhm, i need an objective perspective. Im crushing on this friend and shes crushing on me too but we're not going on any official dates or anything we're just letting it flow however. So this friends ex flirts with me and she asked me out and i still havent responded. I dont want to go out but should i tell her i have a thing for her ex? I feel like i shouldnt, just say im into someone else, but theyre still friends and we all hang out im worried i might hurt her if she sees us together...
Hm….I’m probably not the best person to be asking advice for anything like this but I’ll try and answer as best as I can! I think that if you’re not into your ex you should just politely decline her request, if you tell her that you’re crushing on her friend then choas could break out. If she were an understanding friend then I would say tell her or just tell her that you’re crushing on someone else, if she’s understanding then she might feel hurt but she might get over it in time? It depends on in she’s serious about asking you out I guess, I’m not sure. I’ve never had anything happen like this to me myself. Also, I think that if you and the girl you are crushing on are contemplating dating then I think you should give it a go! That’s just my opinion though. Maybe you should ask other people for advice as well and choose what would be best for you?
Whatever you decide to do, I wish you good luck! Everything will work out one way or another, it may take time but it will, you’ll see :3