Time for a Reset: A Post-holiday Spending Freeze
The holidays have come and gone. After settling down from the hustle and bustle of the season, I am more aware of the amount of money I spent on gifts and holiday preparations. I am also acutely aware of the sheer amount of stuff I have accumulated, not just through gifts but in general over the past year. I feel the urge to pursue a financial reset of sorts and to buy things with more intention, rather than aimlessly engage in shopping and the accumulation of things. The start of the New Year seems as good a time as any to make some changes! While decluttering is important and useful, I am choosing for now to focus on limiting how much new stuff is entering my home and my life.
To that end, I will be experimenting with employing a “spending freeze”, or at least a partial one during the month of January. Certain financial expenditures are unavoidable, including mortgage payments, car payments, utilities, groceries, basic toiletries and student loan payments. But for all the other stuff, it is time to take a hard look at my spending to see where my money is really going.
I have tracked already been my spending in recent times (”Mint” is a great app fir this!). Potential areas for me to decrease or even eliminate wasteful spending are on buying coffee or lunches during work days. Also, trips to the pharmacy for something necessary, like toilet paper, often leads to unexpected purchases of beauty/bath supplies and snacks. Other expenses include dining out for dinner and buying drinks at the bar. These are all examples of things I spend my money on that are not adding much value to my life.
A potential downfall to a complete spending freeze is that is difficult to sustain. Much like going on a very strict diet, there is potential for the dieter to feel deprived, have a “slip,” feel like a failure, and then over-indulge. To prevent such a scenario, it can be helpful to freeze spending in only a few, or even one area at a time, i.e. no purchasing makeup for one month. Once one area of meaningless spending it mastered, then you can move on to another area.
My goal for January is to cut several areas of unnecessary spending, including the following categories:
- Makeup, beauty and non-essential toiletries
- Coffee from coffee shops
I may be biting off more than I can chew by having multiple categories, but I will be patient with myself and see how I do. If it proves to be too much, I will be more specific with my spending freeze strategy come February.
Lunches will likely be the most difficult for me. During a hectic work day, I enjoy stepping out and grabbing a quick and yummy lunch. I suspect that avoiding clothes-shopping will be the easiest one for me to bear, since I tend to spend less in this category in general. Notably, I am not attempting to freeze my spending on dinners or drinks out at this point, in an effort to not set myself up for failure.
Strategies for cutting back on spending I have devised so far include:
1) Avoiding unnecessary trips to malls, retail stores and pharmacies to decrease temptation.
2) Refraining from browsing on online stores and Amazon
3) Unsubscribing from mailing lists that promote shopping/spending (also a great way to decrease digital clutter!)
4) Making an effort to use makeup/beauty products I already own. Making a weekly makeup capsule collection (more on this in a future post)
5) Brewing coffee at home before work and using a travel mug
6) Packing lunches for work (also way healthier than eating out all the time!)
Perhaps the most crucial strategy for avoiding unnecessary spending involves fully examining the reasons you wish to do so and visualizing all the benefits of achieving your goals. Maybe you are saving up for something special like a trip or a down payment on a home. Maybe you want to pad your savings and breathe a little easier. Perhaps you are envisioning a clutter-free home where you can cultivate an environment of peace and calm. Do whatever you have to do to remember these reasons when it counts, i.e. when you are faced with the decision to purchase somethings. Write out a list of reasons and carry it with you. Put post-its messages on your bathroom mirror or on your dashboard to remind you of your goals. Participate in an imaginal exercise where you visualize what it looks and feels like to achieve your goals. In moments of stress it easy to slip into emotional spending. When your brain is coming up with justifications for spending (such as “you deserve this, you’ve had a hard day”, or “this one little purchase doesn’t matter”) you will need to have your reasons and goals ingrained in your brain and readily accessible to combat these urges.
After January is over, I will reflect on my month of intentional spending. I will reflect on what strategies worked well and which ones were less helpful. I will take note of any unanticipated challenges that popped up. Above all I will try to keep in mind that true abundance has nothing to do with having lots of things, but with feeling calm, free and at peace.
If you are reading this and have some changes yo want to make, I wish you well on your journey!