"Confessions of a young mom" It was just an ordinary day when I asked my ex-husband to go out with me to meet up with my doctor whom I had an appointment with. That day, I thought it was just a regular check up to attend to only to find out that I was (4 months & 19 days) pregnant with my daughter. We were both so stunned and I literally cried as my partner blamed in shock. After several hours, my partner held my hands and ought to do his best to provide the needs of our child (with a happy face). *Thanked God! He was responsible. However, in opposite, I was the one who was denial To make the long story short ... after I gave birth, I was happy, but not as happy as a mother who was wishing to have her baby. I can even remember the time when I was just looking to her intently and asking myself (if this is really my baby) 🤣 as I thought I was still the one haha! I never knew anything, I didn't clean her stool, nor I took her to bath. (All was done by my father and grandmother) during her infant days. I was so young. Really young. But, as time went by, the love I have for my daughter grew and grew realizing how blessed I am to have her. She is naughty and extremely jolly making everyone in a goodvibe 💙. And then, I felt sorry for those months that I didn't look after her seriously. To those young moms who had their child at their younger ages, I know you have a portion in your heart where you are still denial that you have a baby and your single life from the past domineers more at times. But, you shouldn't be ashamed of. Considering the level of your maturity is valid BUT, you have to make sure that you're trying hard to learn what is mom life and parenting as well. The post-partum depression stage might break you in a mean time but never break your connection as a mother to your child. - Sincerely, the young mom 😊 #stepbysteplearning #staycoolmom https://www.instagram.com/p/B7yuN2ipU51/?igshid=r6omerkd94ku















