#stephthoughts

[thatsthefuninyou]

Unrelated GIF above but I just wanted to say @taylorswift if you ever read this. I’m not so talented with words like you or some other fans. But I’m really in love with the Archer because it’s so strange when a song comes out and you can attach a past memory to it immediately. The Archer makes me instantly think back to a time when I felt lost, wasn’t sure if dating was worth it or for me, I always tended to make what I consider the same mistakes with my choices in men and then somehow convince myself it was all their fault.

Until one day I met my husband. All my anxiety’s of self worth and panic attacks of everyday things slowly receded. I still have those days and I’m not saying my husband made them go away. But it was a different kind of love, a love that was really something, the kind that makes you feel steady. I felt companionship and support. It helped me to focus and stabilize my crazy mind. When I hear the Archer I instantly attach the low point memory and the first day of meeting my husband.

I’m not saying that’s what your song is about. But I just wanted you to know. I really dig the vibe of the song and the depth of emotion that’s projected. I’ve had it on repeat since last night! And I can’t wait to hear this live at my very first concert. Btw I’m probably the only fan your age but it’s been so cool literally growing up with you and what feels like you write my diary entries.

Fan since 07’!!! Debut was my jam in HS! @taylorswift @taylornation

[thatsthefuninyou]

I think it’d be sick to have a

Female rapper have a verse on The Man if it became a single. But the bars gotta be 🔥

@taylorswift

[thatsthefuninyou]

Why is RED still that album tho ....

I seriously could listen to it front to back for hours with no complaints. So eclectic with all the songs on there and it truly is an emotional rollercoaster 🎢

[thatsthefuninyou]

But what was the Troy Sivan pin for!!??????

Was that ever answered???? @taylorswift or did I miss something

Credit to @ajaskween for GIF

[thatsthefuninyou]

I’ve literally watched friend so many times I’m starting to catch mistakes 😳😳 season 9 episode 4. Around 12:25. Joey comes in and was talking to Monica and Rachel and all of a sudden there’s a mystery woman at the table and then poof she’s gone!!!

[thatsthefuninyou]

I went shopping for my new job, which I start when I get back from vacation.!!!!!!. I’m excited to get my professional on and look like an adult. Embracing 30 coming this October is hard. I’ve been working on my fitness and although the picture above doesn’t appear like I’m in great shape I am proud that underneath I know the muscles I used to have from soccer are slowly coming back and I’m toning.

Once me and hubby are back from Amsterdam we are gonna get serious with the healthy eating since that’s the most important part!!! I know we can reach our goal before both our 30th!!! Also just writing out that I’m going to be 30 is freaking terrifying. Feels like a midlife crisis. Everyone thinks you’ve got life figured out but the truth is YOU DONT. But you have to keep pretending everyday you do know what you are doing hahahahaha

[thestoneysimmer]

Abortions

1.04 million abortions has happened in the year of 2012. That number may have doubled if not tripled in the year 2014. How can a woman bring herself to kill her baby. A gift from God and it's killed because she's either scared to be a single parent, parents don't accept it, the baby daddy don't want it or she just don't care. How can you lay down and have sex but can't take care of your responsibility? There's couples out here that wants a family but the wife can't have children or maybe a gay couple wants a child there's always options for adoption. How can a female let a doctor give her pills to kill her child? Then she finally want to have kids with her husband and can't cause something went wrong during the abortion. I understand that abortion could be a get out of jail card if you seriously have no way of raising a baby. But saying the time isn't right is not a good excuse. If the time was right to lay down and have sex then the time is right to lay down and have that baby. I have watched girls 15 & 16 have a baby in high school. They completed their senior year walked across the stage even attended prom. All while have a baby at home. And I'm proud of their accomplishments because they are now working at good jobs to support their child. The show 16 & Pregnant is just BS I can't watch it without cursing because those girls drop out of school their senior cause they can't "concentrate" just bs to me. I understand it won't be as easy as it once was but I'm sure there's ways to get that baby sleep and your work done. Killing a baby taking its life like it asked to be here is just ignorant and any female that have ever killed her baby because she don't want it or cause its not the right time is already a dead beat mom to me. .

[steppsorandom]

Wanting.

Maybe when you want something so bad God put it off because you have to realize that you can live without the wants in your life and he decides to give you something you need. You want for the person your heart was last with but even without reason you're apart. Apart because God decided he has something bigger in works for you. Instead of noticing the blessing you look over it because you lived to make that person happy and without that person you're sad or weak on your best days. You turn to things that take the pain away momentarily and even though the pain is gone for that moment you have to come back to reality when it's all over. It's hard to not want for something when you have gotten so use to. You wake up talking to them and end your night talking to them so why not want that back when it's all over? Because the way God is set up it's something better being made for you while your busy dwelling on the past. Keep your head up and remember that "the pain that you have been feeling can not compare to the joy that is coming."