Okay, can we just talk about this for a minute? I find that calling a woman a man's weakness to be extremely degrading and insulting. I dont want to be his fucking weakness, I want to be his strength! I want to be what makes him stronger, I want to be the reason he fights everyday, I want to be his rock.
And dont fucking tell me he's my strength, I have my own strength goddamnit. I'm not some innocent little princess that needs a knight in shining armor. I've fought my own battles and I will continue to fight my own battles. I dont need a man and I especially don't need one to be my strength.
I want a relationship of equals, equal giving and equal taking. I want moments of strength and moments of weakness. I want gentleness and tenderness, but not weakness or strength on any one side. That makes a relationship lopsided and explosive.
We need to stop labeling men and women in relationships. By doing so, we're creating unhealthy expectations of society.