Gender and gender identification are two totally different things okay.
The way I see it and what I've learned in life. This is not some ignorant bullshit. Read on if you wish. Gender is not in your mind. It's given to you by nature. If you identify different that's FINE and people should not be assholes and say the right pronouns and stuff but that doesn't take away the FACT that there are only three genders. But a shitton of ways to identify and I think that's cool. I'm just getting so sick of people saying that you are what you identify with. No. It's simply not true. I'm a woman by nature so I AM a woman. I identify as a woman. Though I am pretty fucking manly. If I were to identify as a man that's cool and I'd want other people to accept that and to go with that, but I'd still BE a woman because that's how I was fucking born. I do NOT care who I am pissing off with this, especially because I am saying that people should go with how you identify but just stop.