This might be a hot take but I don't like the sentiment that heterosexual people aren't heterosexual anymore if they date a nonbinary person. I don't think dating a nonbinary person should need to change a monosexual person's orientation. And I'm saying this as a genderfluid boygirl. If a lesbian and a gay man can date a nonbinary person and still be who they are, then I don't think that should affect straight people regardless of gender identity. I even believe nonbinary straight people can exist the same way a nonbinary lesbian can exist. Monosexual people aren't suddenly multisexual because they have a nonbinary partner. And I don't think straight orientations are antithetical to gay ones. People can be straight in a way that's queer. That's why straight aces are still part of the queer community even if queer may not be their identity. You understand? I don't think straight trans people should have to identify as queer to be considered part of the queer community. Heteronormativity is antithetical to queerness, not straight people.