being sexually attracted to a people without the romantic attraction (eg. aroallos, bisexual hetero/homo roms, etc) will make so many people think it warrants the worst purity culture ass shit i stg. like no that bisexual homoromantic man is not misogynstic for not romantically liking women. no that aroallo is not just a whore that sleeps around and breaks hearts. you all need to unlearn this shit. being lgbt is not some cutesy clean thing. there are going to be 'unsavoury' identities. there is going to be identities that you think are 'too weird'. my advice? get over yourself.
happy pride. i better not be seeing *that* one particular meme this fucking year. i need yall to be normal about transhets, enbyhets, straight intersex folks, heteroromantic gays/lesbians/mspecs, homoromantic straights and straight aspecs this year. /srs
(Image ID: An edited image featuring three pikachus holding either strop signs or rainbow flags and floating text. Part of this meme has been edited out in black with white text added. The text reads “it’s "june” which mean it’s Time for a reminder that the original version of this meme is incredibly aphobic and ignores the existence of trans and nonbinary people too. Straight aspecs, straight trans folks, straight intersex folks, straight nonbinary folks and heteroromantic gays/lesbians/mspecs exist as well and are still queer. Queer =/= nonstraight. Happy Pride Month yall!“. There is also an arrow and black text which reads "And vice versa!”. End ID)
(PS: Exclusionists will be blocked on sight, so don't bother).
No way Soul stop creating new blogs challenge. No but fr, hi y'all! This blog is inspired by my wonderful friend @thisisexorsexism and @this-is-antitransfemininity, @this-is-varsexism-transphobia and the new @this-is-binarism and @this-is-sexism.
Im a transfemmasc multigender enby boygirl (if your first question is "how??", check out this post [link] where I explain why I call myself the way I do) and I wanted to make a space specifically to call out multigenderphobia or multigendermisia, aka the discrimination and erasure of multigender identities. I see it a lot tied with rethoric that puts man/woman, masculinity/femininity, cis/trans, binary/nonbinary, gay/straight or gay/lesbian as opposite, mutually exclusive experiences.
This fuels the belief in oppositional sexism and harms *everyone*, but because non binary and specifically multigender people are rarely if ever focused on, even though this rethoric targets us in particular, I wanted to try and contribute my own to the community through this blog.
Should go without saying that any hatred towards contradictory labels is also multigenderphobia, although multigender people arent the only one to use them. This blog is therefore absolutely inclusive of mspec lesbians/gays, cistrans, gaybians, boygirls and manwomen, xenogenders, non binary men and non binary women, honeybee transfem and carpenter bee transmascs and all other labels used in good faith. Also should go without saying, any a-spec identities, ace, aro, afamilial, aplatonic, etc and oriented aroaces + polyamorous people.
This blog is also safe for systems and plurals of any origin, people of colour, intersex people, physically and/or mentally disabled people, neurodivergent people and all personality/mood disorders, and should go without saying but with the current discourse and infighting Ill state it, binary trans women and binary trans men. I support everyone in talking about their oppression and struggles.
Extra info + tagging system
If you recognise my name, I also run @our-genderquestioning-experience and @angels-safe-corner. Im not an activist and I am just a multigender student who really wants to do eir part to help other trans people.
I use ey/em/eir/eirs/emself pronouns alongside he/him and she/her *intercheangably* (I cannot stress enough to not just refer to me as she or he exclusively), alternatively it/its or any neos. Please do not use they/them for me, although I totally understand if it's used because you havent read my pronouns yet (aka as a gender neutral way to refer to anyone), but if you're reading this, Id rather you use my preferred pronouns than they/them.
The main header flag and dividers are the multigender flag made by @wrenflags in this post [link]
The profile picture is a sensory friendly softened version of the original multigender flag, made by @your-bigender-big-brother in this post [link] on which @rikkayeet applied the trans anarchy symbol, which you can find in this post [link] and the original design + different versions they made in this post [link]
Thattt should be all, asks will be open for anyone. Multigender people shoutout to y'all, you're awesome and wonderful and I love you <3
heres a little pride piece for yalls. figuring out who i am is/was/has been a very long process and i have experienced a lot of insecurity and anxiety about it, but i couldnt be happier. ive learned a lot about myself and who i want to be beyond just what typa queer person i am. its very nice. happy june, never be ashamed of feeling the way u feel <3
alt colors i thought were a little bit too eyestrainey, shrug.
