i’m really going through it right now, and you know when you’re at the rawest stage of grief/heartbreak and there are a very few things that soothe your soul a bit by making you feel understood? your post about endings in real life, how they come about so suddenly and then the next minute, there’s no going back. it’s maybe the only thing that makes it make sense. the fact that someone else put that truth in the world for me to see helps me in a way little else can right now. thank you
💗💗 im so sorry things are so relentlessly tough and im so glad my post could be of some help even in a small way. i think it was one of the harshest realisations ive ever had. like the senseless finality of these things and really really living that first hand. always struggle w this myself knowing the enormity of some trauma / grief and knowing how sometimes very little can be said that even begins to make a dent in it and the sort of helpless feeling that comes along with that, so knowing it provided you with at least a sense of understanding is really nice. thank you so much for reading it and taking the time to listen , i truly hope you at least can show yourself some grace and patience at the moment and that you have good people around you to help you get from moment to moment. if not pls don’t hesitate to message me bc any time x







