Meeting your ex
(G)I—DLE ✦ Fem!Reader
WARNING—titles/ pet names ✦ relationship au ✦ light angst ✦ mentions of pda
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A/N. i miss soojin :( the members are doing solo activities now, soyeon w/ 'windy’, yuqi with 'bonnie & clyde'/‘giant’ and minnie w/ her new drama ‘not worth it’! idk what the other members are doing but let’s hope they’re well at least on a whole other note, i wanna comment on ‘i burn’ a bit. all b-sides were so fkn good! but my favorite were ‘lost’, ‘moon’ and ‘dahlia’. fkn gold. first album i’ve purchased in my life lmao. (mini-album but it still counts!)
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전소연 / soyeon
Unlike the GIF may suggest, I don't think she'd act shady as in she'd be mean or roll her eyes at your ex if she were to meet them since she's a very mature person. However, if your ex were affectionate or expressed having feelings for you still, she'd take charge and let your ex know that you're taken but in the chillest, cutest way possible like by PDA; backhugging you, calling you by your pet name or kiss your cheek in front of your ex. As mentioned, she's mature and doesn't do things out of impulse. "Remember your favorite candy that I absolutely hated? I buy that and willingly eat it sometimes when I'm feeling down," your ex smiled at you, thinking back to old times. "She doesn't like that candy anymore," Soyeon giggled and turned to you, "so we have this tradition that every weekend one of us surprises the other with a new candy we've never tried before. And it's your turn this week, Babe!" Soyeon turned the conversation into a dialog between you and her so smoothly, making your ex invisible. Oh lord help your ex if they didn't get the memo! After the encounter, she'd prefer it if she never met your ex ever again since they aren't a relevant part of you life anymore and she wouldn't want to hurt your ex by letting you lead them on, y'know. But, if your ex were to get your number and text you that they aren't over you, Soyeon would get your ex's number and reject them by texting something like "I'm sorry, I met you at *insert location* a week ago, and I'm ___'s girlfriend. I hope you understand why I don't want you to contact her again. Thanks!" She'd ask you to block your ex's number and social medias so if she ever saw your ex's name on your screen again, she'd confront you, thinking you were cheating on her. It may seem too much of her to demand that but she wouldn't feel comfortable with her girlfriend being in touch with an ex who still has feelings for her.
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조미연 / miyeon
Jealous. Miyeon doesn’t care for personal space in general, always touching you in some way, holding your hand, hugging you, leaning on you, so you bet your ass she will maximize the PDA. She wants all of her girlfriend's attention at all times. Therefore, she could turn into the biggest brat if you were to even look your ex's way. She'd prefer it if the ugly scenario of ever seeing your ex in public happened that you'd either ignore them or show them you're very disinterested in them (not keep eye contact, not laugh at their jokes, not smile at them, only looking at your girlfriend). If you were to be friendly with your ex, she'd become needy and jealous but would express it through demanding your attention even more, flirting with you but not making up an excuse to leave your ex because she wants your ex to leave as to show they’d given up on your attention, which’d leave Miyeon finally satisfied. "Baby, there you are!" Miyeon said in a cuteified voice, pouting at you, making sure to look at your ex's reaction when she called you baby. "Baby, have I told you how pretty you look? You’re so pretty I wanna eat you up," she jokingly nipped at your cheek, making your ex finally turn around and leave. Miyeon clung onto your arm, "Look at me only. Okay? I’m your girlfriend not that thing over there." Afterwards, she'd talk to you about it and complain that she wants you to show that you're her girlfriend and that you're proud to be so, either by saying it or PDA because she doesn't want your ex to have any ideas. Safe to say that if you were to have contact with your ex since that situation, she'd become very insecure about where you stand in the relationship. Everyone has different expectations in a relationship and she'd be sad that you ignored hers, even after she told you she gets upset especially when you're friendly with your ex, who is a part of your past and shouldn't be a part of your present. Don't talk to your ex damn it. ✦... ✦ ...✦✦✦✦
ณิชา ยนตรรักษ์ / minnie
She is a Scorpio, need I say more? But really though, I think she’d be jealous. So, I think she’s the kind of girlfriend to know everything about you, including all details of your past relationships. Thus she’s likely to get more hurt by seeing you with anyone of your exes. Babie could become a bit insecure ngl :( She’d have a glare without trying to and she’d try not to come across as jealous but you’d be able to tell by her increase in PDA, clinging onto your arm or resting her head on your shoulder. She’d give her best effort to show to your ex that you are taken by her. "___, what movie do you wanna watch tonight, love?" she said out loud, although her face was near yours enough for you to hear her even if she whispered, because she wanted to make sure your ex heard.
“Well (…)”
“I wanna go now. Wanna cuddle so bad,” she huffed with her best pout, “Pwease let’s go already.”
If you didn’t go after her numerous attempts at being cute enough for you to forget your ex’s company she would go as far as doing aggressive aegyo with confidence in either making you soft or embarrassed enough to drag her away.
Afterwards, she’d act like she hadn’t been jealous, only admitting if you were to initiate a conversation about it. She really values communication in your relationship since she wants both of you to be honest, comfortable and safe with each other so I do think she would open up about how meeting your ex would upset her. It’s not something she can control, she just feels hurt seeing you spend time with them instead of her when she’s your girlfriend. You’d have to agree on respecting each other’s comfort zones in the future. ✦✦... ✦ ...✦✦✦
서수진 / soojin
OK, so we all know Sujin is a jealous person. (Shit, she even gets jelly when Shuhua is affectionate with any bandmate, because she only wants her to be cute with her!) This may be harsh but I feel like she'd love it if you were cold to your ex, maybe even mean to them (!). She has a hard time opening up about her feelings, needing a bit of time and thought before expressing her troubles to you, so she wouldn’t say anything, only think and hope for you to act cold to your ex. Subconsciously, she’d become a tiny bit affectionate and hold your hand or just play with it in front of your ex, avoiding eye contact, both out of jealousy and nervousness. She’d become hurt if you spent more time than necessary (she’s not even sure what is considered more than necessary) in the company of your ex. She stared at you as you spoke to your ex who had approached you in the middle of a freaking date (ugh). She didn't say anything, rather observing what you do in a situation like this, hoping you'll tell your ex to leave (in a kind manner or not doesn’t matter) so you could continue your date with your girlfriend who you love very, very much.
Suddenly your hands were super interesting and she started playing with them, waiting for your ex to leave (hopefully because you told them to).
If you didn’t end up telling your ex to leave, the rest of the date would be a little tense, Sujin feeling hurt.
If you knew your girlfriend well and therefore told your ex to leave, her face would brighten up and she’d tell you that you didn’t need to do all that, while giggling and blushing at you. Baby would deny any ideas of her being jealous. No, she wasn’t jealous, why would you even think that? I mean, her body language could be interpreted as anything from jealousy to nervousness to boredom. If you were smart and told your ex to leave, you would have amazing sex that night. ✦✦✦... ✦ ...✦✦
宋雨琦 / yuqi
Oh bitch. You're hers. Periodt. If anyone — especially your ex — has the audacity to act like you don’t belong to her, she will cut a bitch. Not only will she make the idiot regret their huge mistake, she will be disappointed if you don’t try to match her loyalty by e.g. embarrassing your ex, completely ignore them, or kiss your girlfriend in front of them to show you don’t have any plans on being with them. I think she could handle not having you throw words at your ex, maybe even feel cool for breaking that idiot down by herself, but ultimately she’d feel reassured if you helped. She doesn’t want to feel like you’re not as invested in your relationship as she is.
"I'm ___'s girlfriend. Why are you talking to her?" Yuqi looked at your ex, her charismatic stare scaring them a bit.
“H-Hi? Uhm, I’m just catching up a bit.”
“Sorry, but she’s not interested in peasants, you should know that by looking at me,” Yuqi eyed them, judging them shamelessly.
“Let’s just go, Princess,” you kissed her hand.
“Let’s go to bed, Mommy,” she said as you turned around, not caring if your ex heard or not. “I can’t believe you went out with that before me.”
You better fuck her well to make her anger over your ex disappear. She wouldn’t be mad at you but meeting your ex in general would put her in a bad mood. So, go to a bathroom, finger her, make her taste your wet fingers, leave hickeys on her and then order her to do the same to you. Shit, she may even turn into a power bottom and kiss your neck and tell you to leave the lipstick stains for everyone to see. I don’t think it’s about jealousy it’s rather about her not liking meeting your ex or even hearing the mention of their name because they make her think if you in a relationship that isn’t with her, which leaves her not so happy.
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葉舒華 / shuhua
(자기야 = jagiya)
Oh lord I love this woman. We all know Shuhua would speak up. Periodt. She's protective. Periodt. You're hers. (Y'all have seen how she protects her members when anyone dares comment hate on their vlives, right?) She would look your ex dead in the eye and confront them, whether they were flirting with you or just making small talk. To some people, it may seem like she’s overreacting but she just hates your ex since the moment you told her about the past relationship.
"Hey! Can't you see ___ is with me? I'm literally holding her hand and kissed her right before you came and interrupted our peaceful time. Do I have to write Belongs to Shuhua on her arm for you to understand?" she squeezed your hand and clenched her free one, prepared to slam your stupid ex if they had the audacity to not leave in the next few seconds.
As soon as your ex left, Shuhua turned to you, “자기야, get me a pen. I don’t want another idiot to think they have the privilege of talking to my girlfriend.” I don’t see her reacting in a different way in the future; she’ll kill your exes with words (and hands if necessary). She’ll only blame them for their behavior because it is not your fault that your exes approach you and can’t take the obvious hints of being in a loving relationship. Afterwards, she becomes more clingy than usual, sticking to your side the remaining hours of the day, needing you to show how much you love her with words, cuddles and sweet love-making. The next day she would wake you up with kisses, whining for you to spoon her even when you’re sleeping. Yeah, you’d have to show her a tad more affection as to remind her you love her more than you’ve loved anyone in the past.
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❝ Turn off the moonlight
Please don't let it shine
아침이 오기 전까지
아무도 날 볼 수 없게
Please hide me ❞
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( Turn off the moonlight
Please don't let it shine
So no one can see me
Until the morning comes
Please hide me )
—nicha yontararak & cho miyeon; 2021