#sucking strap

[lochbutch]

need a femme staring up at me like i’m the sun and moon while they choke on my strap

[butchestcaesar]

there's something about kneeling that just feels so right. it's so calm and easy to just stay down there as long as i can, putting my mouth to work on the only thing it's good for. letting myself be pulled about and moved, drooling on her strap and letting her fuck my face. smiling up even though i must look ruined because i know my place and its down here on the floor, polite and patient like a good dog.

[marlborodeads]

want to hold him by a fistful of his curls and force his head down my strap,,, need a pretty boy to take it and come suck me off 🐾

[bear-not-found]

how do we feel about femmes who suck strap 😌 (24, she/her)

PLEASE! God, I adore watching femmes (and butches, tbh) suck strap.

Like, we both know I can't feel it, but the thought that you want me so much that you're willing to submit and show off is so hot. Watching my strap be sucked on gets me so wet and it only gets better if you're cleaning it up after using it on me. I also like sucking strap and cleaning it off.

[softtummybutch]

My boss told me today that she heard a joke about lesbians choking on plastic and didn't get it and asked me why lesbians would choke on plastic.

I just had to explain sucking on the strap to my boss.

[what-the-fuck-o-clock-blog]

I just want a butch to hug me and kiss me and call me a pretty princess. Maybe slap my ass while I suck their strap. Is that really too much to ask???

[cheese-cobi]

They need to make a strap you can feel, si-fi stuff, so you can feel when it hits the back of my throat

[packedandstrapped]

Heya, idk if you respond to asks like this but figured I’d give it a shot. I’m currently exploring my masc/butch identity and wanted to ask, does having somebody suck on your strap or give you a handjob actually provide sexual pleasure? Does it have to be a specific kind of strap/packer? I’ve been thinking of trying it out but I’m not sure exactly how it works and you seem fairly experienced with it, no pressure to respond though

I thought I could talk about getting hand jobs and blow jobs all damn day but now I'm suddenly shy about it. 😅

I don't feel like it's a super complicated process, but I can identify a few things that stood in the way before I could enjoy it with the intensity that I do now.

Firstly, I don't know if this has come up for you but let me be super clear when I say that getting your dick sucked does not mean:

you're doing anything wrong

your sexual orientation is anything other than the one you identify with

your partner's sexual orientation is anything other than the one they identify with

you're appropriating a trans experience

you're trying to replicate a hetero experience

I came up as a baby butch in a bit of a different time and faced a lot of judgment over this in my close group of friends so sometimes I'm still surprised when folks want to hear about this.

I'm stone so keep in mind that I don't receive sexual touch in any other way than this and it's profoundly gratifying.

does having somebody suck on your strap or give you a handjob actually provide sexual pleasure?

Yes. It provides deep, intense, all-consuming sexual pleasure for me. Specifically (god this is where I get shy), I can cum from getting head in under two minutes and there are so many things that really add to the experience. Like the intense and verbalized desire of my partner to do this for me and the anticipation of the devotion I'm about to receive. For me, the journey to cumming in a femme's mouth starts from the moment I look at her. It's the flirting beforehand and the way she looks down at my lower half. It's the sheen on her lips and the sassiness that rolls off of them. It's the first electric touch that conveys she wants to make me feel good but won't quite say it. It's the soft moan that comes out when she feels my bulge over denim. And the lightest amount of pressure I can feel traveling through my dick and up against my pelvic bone when she drags a nail up to trace my shaft. It's the way she unzips my pants and marvels at the bulge in soft boxer briefs. It's the feeling of my lap being the voluntary place of worship for a femme.

From the moment she releases my cock the visual piece is what I have to battle to not cum instantly. The way she looks at my cock before she makes it hers. Her pretty nails wrapped around my shaft. How she looks up at me when she licks the tip playfully. Seeing her flattened tongue move up and down while she holds my cock carefully in one open hand. The way she works so hard to take as much as she can. The sounds of her small moans and her lips popping as they suck and release just the tip. The hand placement- hers on my legs and mine in her hair. The motion of her head taking my cock in and out of her mouth over and over. Her response to my grunts and groans as I start to unravel. Her hand moving to my lower abdomen to feel the muscle spasms start and finish.

Truly, it is all of those pieces that come together that create the experience for me. If we're just talking about physically, it's the base of the cock pressing up against my pubic bone and the related motions that create the sensation. I think there are some folks that can strap up with any kind of dick and feel good about oral action, but for me, it's like a religious experience with a femme and I love being in tune with every single piece of it.

Does it have to be a specific kind of strap/packer?

I think there's probably a specific combination of things that works for everyone. I have one packer that works for this but most are dual-density cocks with balls and specifically no huge suction cup on the back. I like dicks from the Axolom pack-n-play series for getting head because they aren't rock-hard silicone jabbing units just jamming your partner in the mouth. They're soft, pliable dicks with moving outer skin so the experience feels quite realistic. I think for this part it's important to find what feels good in your hand and what feels like it's a direct extension of your body- that's really the key component.

So that got a bit long-winded but I guess I'm just really passionate about getting head. I can't wait to talk about this kind of stuff with y'all on the stone butch discord server.