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your romance strategy

aim: to have lovers adore you and to always maintain the upper hand in romantic relationships

1. distance!

digital and physical. don't answer every call. don't respond to every text immediately. never fall in love, i.e emotionally attached, too fast. romance is a game and someone is the loser. usually women are the losers in love because they fail to create emotional and physical distance.

2. independence

men are used to women asking them for money sent or given. simply, a woman who doesn't NEED $, DOES NOT ASK FOR IT

if you're asking a man who met online a few weeks or months ago for money, you give him the upper hand automatically. you've shown him that you're not on equal financial footing, therefore minimal "luxury" or gifts will easily impress you

on the first date, you should at least put money on the tip. If they pushback or ask why, say it's for good luck. Personally, I talk about how servers depend on tips and current macroeconomic topics related.

if they're offended, then whoop there's your answer. an independent woman doesn't align herself with men who insist on financial control . she doesn't have to, but most women do because they need a financial savior.

3. charm

imagine you are a crook. what would you say to deceive someone? it'll be charm. you use charisma to manipulate someone.

I'm not saying to be manipulative. I am saying that you catch more flies with honey, which manipulates the relationship dynamic in your favor. reread that

charming men is a feminine trick as old as time. When streetwalkers who were also spies would charm the soilders who visited brothels. men are to be buttered up but kept at enough distance to be forced to worry and wonder about you.

4. a purpose outside yourself (bonus!)

the most romantic strategy you can have is a life's mission.

it's beyond being involved in charity or technically having a nonprofit. it's being able to articulate and take action towards a philanthropic vision, such as providing electricity for African countries, maybe countries of your origin.

here are some you can steal:

s*x trafficking

rescuing animals (dogs but also sea animals need our help too!)

d*mestic violence

I've saved the sexiest strategy for last.

yes, there's great tax benefits to being charitable and having one legally registered of your own. however, it is both personally and romantically satisfying when you invest time, energy and money into helping others.

it is inspiring, and you want to always keep a lover inspired by you

it is rewarding

it is necessary

(6) But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment. (7) For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that. (8) I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I. (9) But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. (10) And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:" — Paul in 1 Corinthians 7:6–10