#sweetanons

[fawnsil]

Your art is so soft I wanna crawl inside it and take a nap its lovely.

this is literally the sweetest comment i've ever gotten for my art omg,, ty anon ily

[mrnlnwrites]

Hey I have a question about south Asian characters in general. I’m writing a character in my fantasy novel who is smart, beautiful, really badass and hardworking. I’ve always envisioned her looking kind of south Asian, with the really dark smooth skin and lots of hair, super brows, all that good stuff. I’m wondering how problematic would it be to write her as a courtesan/escort/sex worker? I don’t want to offend anyone considering the sex trafficking issues Americans bring over in those regions.

There are a lot of factors that go into this answer! (So this is kinda long, just fyi) 

Firstly, does your character look at sex work as a kind of empowerment? Does she need to do it for the sake of paying off bills or loans? Is whatever country your character is from follow a religion based off on actual South Asian religion? While Hinduism doesn’t require women to cover up for God, women still are heavily sexulized and should wear clothes that are “decent.” (ugh - bs) That can influence how she looks at sex work - my parents were always super lax with religion, but, while they don’t care if I go out in booty shorts, they would probably throw a fit if I became a stripper/sex worker. I myself don’t think sex work is bad in any way, shape, or form (unless it’s non consensual, like sex trafficking) but I wouldn’t become a sex worker unless I had absolutely no other choice. So does she mind showing off her body for other people? Does she feel uncomfortable about it?

Also, does she live in a place different from her home land? (for instance, I live in the US, so my parents allow me more freedom with what I wear, and my view points are influenced by American culture. Are her views different from what her family members would think? 

The biggest question: is she doing this willingly? 

The above questions are based on if she made the choice to be a sex worker. If she didn’t, then you have a great opportunity to talk/send a message about sex trafficking that happens to women of color. (A great example would be Inej Ghafa from Six of Crows, a woc who was made to work in a pleasure house unwillingly). Is her skin color fetishized? Do people only want to go to her because her skin is like *insert food here*? 

You said she was hardworking, so I’m assuming she’s doing this willingly. Personally, I don’t think it’s problematic, but obviously, with sex work, there are going to be other people who disagree. Anybody can be a sex worker, it’s not only limited to people with lighter skin. I’d just be prepared for critics who may come at you voicing your worries and saying stuff like “omg you’re fetishizing people of color!!!!!!” 

Your story sounds really interesting btw! I’d love to hear more of it if you’re willing to share!

[justkpopstuffinmyhead]

Yongguk in EGO 👌🏻 Der Moment wenn dich dein Ultimate Bias wreckt

Yongguk is hella hot. Aber ich bin seit 2 Jahren stolzer Yoongi stan. Also Yoongi als mein ult. Nur kommt FUCKING WONHO JZ AUF Einmal und dann wagt yongguk auch noch mit hands up zu kommen..

[justkpopstuffinmyhead]

I mean, I'm not complaining about it.... Mafia!Jongup sounds really good to me.

I don’t complain either. Like. Hands up got me messed up in all sorts of ways. I used to be rly into tattoos and piercings and I thought I was over it but now…..

[justkpopstuffinmyhead]

Of course we thirsty for Yongguk. Hands up man

I used to be super obsessed with tattoos and piercings and I thought I was over it but this mv certainly proved me wrong. Like damn that boy.

[justkpopstuffinmyhead]

I need a Mafia!Jongup smut so bad.

Y'all are thirsty. Yesterday yongguk. Today jongup. And next time it will be another member until we are done and we’ll start again? Damn i love your thirsty asses

I’ll play some “the last guardian” now and see what I can do about it later

[justkpopstuffinmyhead]

Yeah same. I only really started to stan them this year. The song that got me to stan them was 100% One Shot because holy heck. Not only because of Yongguk's deep ass voice but also Daehyun's A+ vocals. And currently my top three bais in BAP is 1. Yongguk, 2. Himchan, and 3. Jongup.

I liked one shot and young wild and free was hella dope but then I saw them live and for some reason i feel more attached to those I saw live? Like I love bts but Yongguk and wonho (my biases from mx and bap) have a different place in my heart than suga (my ult) cause I was able to see them live.

To me it’s probably yongguk and then “the rest on second place but if I had to choose it’d be likeYongguk daehyun youngjaeI somehow can’t rly stan zelo (in a god he’s hot way) cause to me he feels like a little puppy that needs protection?

[justkpopstuffinmyhead]

SAME. I am very very very very very very very very attracted to tattoos and piercings and omg hands up I want some. I think that's why I love yongguk so much? Plus he is a sweetheart

His tattoo? Like so handsome. 11/10. Can’t believe I saw him live because that means THIS BEAUTIFUL HUMAN BEING ACTUALLY EXISTS AND IS NOT JUST A WORK OF MY IMAGINATION