Super genuine question to those who engage in shipping / romance side of the fandom (clueless ace here for big robots and friendships):
How would you like people to tag the ships when reblogging? So much discourse lately about top/bottom and correctly ordering the names in the tags?
But if I don't ship and dont know anything about shipping culture and am reblogging fun art (sfw) where the charcters are implied to be in a relationship, I want to tag so people can block the tags, but then I see people are upset when people tag both variants of a ships tag?
Like I don't have a prefference for or even understand how top/bottom changes a ship but using one tag over the other implies my prefferences for one dynamic somehow??
There doesnt seem to be any clear concensus and its a struggle, and im not surpised that theres so much untagged romance ..