These are generally what I like hearing when I am upset, most of the time this is coming from my father. Because what he does is hug me and comfort me this way and has been my preference since a young age. But as I got older, when it comes to… seeking comfort from someone else, it’s difficult. Because, the people I grew up with or talk to are so far away. So when I’m not okay, the most comfort I can get is through text. A call does better justice, because I can hear their voice. And then when they are actually here, it makes releasing much easier and the afterwards where I’m calm again.