I'm pretty sure if the roles where reversed and Ben never became Kylo but instead, Rey did, and Ben sliced her face open, shot her with his blaster, called her a monster, everybody would be up in arms and call Ben abusive and toxic and point out all his flaws. Rey would still the perfect little innocent angel and not be called a “mass-murdering space Nazi”; nothing would be her fault and it all the blame would be on Ben.











