Validation
- I wish so many women but especially black women didn't have to go through an entire cycle of a reprocess stage in thier beauty and the "fake it until you make it" type attitude within themselves. It truly .. hurts. I wish women didn't compare themselves to other women to feel beautiful, noticed, loved ,and cared for. I understand having an example but I'm never understood the continual thought process on the "I'm pretty because me and this other stranger have this in common'. I've seen alot of times that folks that don't see themselves immediately as beautiful often look for a place to land as far as where they fit in this world .... and it makes me feel sad. You are loved , you are beautiful , you are your own light in the darkness that consumes you . I wish your eyes could see how truly breathetaking you actually are so that you could at least bask in your own essence. It's often hard to actually see yourself and deal with the internal anguish within our own mind but at some point to see a change we have to acknowledge it right ? I wish you knew your own value .The day you plant the seed ism't always the day you see your fruit. And sometimes nobody what you do that fruit may not be good right away but with time and dedication to this said fruit it can and will be GREAT.