[text]: Well, I'm scared that if I inform his parents that he'll get in trouble, and it's none of my business, but I'm just concerned. Maybe I could go to the counselor then he can talk to someone about it and not get in trouble and find the right steps to getting help? You're right, it's not addictive, but it could lead to other things like cocaine and other things. But oh yes it was Thomas. I don't sound crazy or controlling, right? This is a reasonable way to react?
Text: I mean, when I found him, smoking outside. I took him to get some food, let him use some cologne and took him home when he sobered up. But the fact that he threatened you scares me. It sounds like he’s headed down a destructive path and you are just worried about his safety. Either way, his parents will find out. He is a danger to himself and others and the moment you tell the counselor is the moment the counselor calls his parents.