#thalia talks

[forthallium]

Do you ever listen to Girls like Girls by Hayley Kiyoko and get hit with a wave of weird nostalgia because of how much has changed when it comes to being queer, how far we have come. Girls like Girls was SO important to me because it was about me. Back then nothing was about queer people and if it was it was never happy. Girls like Girls started so much and now we have so much queer media being made its almost unbelievable

[misskatebishop]

Knowing Lula is Brazil's president and watching it all on TV is making me emotional. The past 4 years were hell, and now there's hope!

[bibright]

if body size doesn’t matter then why do boys always go for girls with tiny waists and nice legs and not girls that look like me why do i only get glances from guys who are super creepy why do the only people who have ever asked for my phone number unsolicited are old and i’m out of their league why am i not one of those girls. instagram doesn’t even show me that shit it’s just irl seeing happy couples at my work and they’re young and beautiful and they look so in love and i want that but i guess i’m just too fucking fat! cool! and after seeing all this what do i do! i go home and eat popcorn and drink cider because i have no fucking self control! even though i had starbucks and mcdonalds today like oh my god i’m such a goddamn fatass and i don’t even have a good personality! no one likes me! i’m worthless! i don’t even write well! why do i try anymore!!!!

[misskatebishop]

I'm soo fed up with this. Of course, my mom is playing the victim. I'm shaking. I'm so fucking angry. I'm tired of picking after my mom. She's 50.

[misskatebishop]

You all really need to understand that when you imply someone can't be in a romantic/sexual relationship because they are aroace, you are ignoring the rest of the aromantic and asexual spec community, right?

Aromanticism means little to no romantic attraction.

Asexuality means little to no sexual attraction.

Yet, we have a whole bunch of a-spec people who do feel those kinds of attractions in different ways. We have demirose people, greyrose, aceflux and aroflux, and these are just the most popular microlabels here.

When you say that an aroace can't have a relationship, you're only taking in consideration 1/3 part of the community that identifies as romance-repulsed and sex-repulsed. You're excluding all sex/romantic-indifferent, and sex/romantic favorable. You're excluding the oriented aroaces. You're harming your community when you invalidate their identities or their desires to pursue a romantic/sexual relationship.

So how can you talk about aphobia when you're being aphobic against your own community?

[misskatebishop]

Enough of this bullshit of people saying Yelena and Kate can't date - besides the fact Yelena's aroace - because of the age gap. Really? That's your new excuse now? Because Kate is 22 and Yelena's 30?

Are you guys aware that Florence Pugh dates a guy 20 years older than her?

I also didn't see anyone complaining about Meredith Grey and Derek Shepherd 10 years old gap in Grey's Anatomy.

You guys are like: they don't have the same maturity level, they're in different stages of life, etc. Well, are you guys aware that there are people in their twenties much more mature than people in their forties, right? Vice-versa.

[misskatebishop]

I have to be up early, but the presidential debate is soo good. Like, Bolsonaro is spitting lies, Lula is the most attacked, but the only sensible candidate. Tebet is smart, and she would have a chance if Lula wasn't in the game. Soraya understands the laws, but not how the government works. Ciro, oh man... I bet he's going to Italy when he loses the elections this year, or maybe, Switzerland. In 2018, he went to France, so we are all guessing which country he'll pick this year. That other guy I don't know the name is businessman, a terrible choice. And why the hell we have a priest as candidate?

Also I can't stop laughing about the fact that Soraya told the priest to go to hell. LOL.

[misskatebishop]

wtf is happening in Brazil?!