Just stumble on a Reddit post listing what a woman plans to do to “revitalize” her romantic relationship with her boyfriend (she wanted advice on it). From her own admission, her couple is struggling notably because her libido is not what it used to and her boyfriend is dissatisfied with how little sex they have (which is a valid issue in a relationship).
Her ideas to work on that? Forcing herself to initiate sexual encounters even if she doesn’t feel like it and dressing more sexily and taking better care of herself! My sister in Christ his libido is fine! He wants to have sex, it is your libido that need to be stimulated not his. He should be doing things to make you hot and bothered, not the opposite! He already wants to fuck you. How making him want to fuck you even more will fix the issue of you not wanting to fuck him as much as he already wants?
I am sick and tired of women struggling with a lack of sexual desire in their relationships, thinking that making themselves even more of an object of desire will fix the fact that they don’t feel any with their partner. You are not going to get more aroused by arousing someone else! Let him wear sexy lingerie and try to seduce you for once! I beg you!
(Don’t even get me started on “having sex I don’t desire to kick start my libido again” part… sometimes l’appétit ne vient pas en mangeant)
