#thatsactuallystarlight

[louisitsalwaysyou]

Did you read emmies post? Why she was a larrie. It’s word for word what antis have been saying for YEARS about larries. It’s so frustrating to actually see it though and yet there are still so many larries. Like how do they not get how transparent they are? They KNOW they are lying to themselves but remain larries anyway. And emmie even admitted that she knew she was wrong but that the larrie fandom normalizes all their terrible behavior so that is what made her last. Like DUH you idiots.

I just finished reading it and I actually am considering reaching out to her. Not because I forgive her, it’s not my place, but just to check in with her. 

About two years ago I messaged back and forth with her under the name louisloveslondon for 5 hrs one night. It was difficult to speak with her because she behaved, for lack of a better term, like someone who was in a manic state. She would fire five or more things at a time at me. I’d be trying to respond to the first question and she’d be on to three more. It was intense.

The two biggest things I took away from that conversation were (1) that I felt very sorry for her because it was apparent that her delusions were directly related to not wanting to hate Louis and (2) that she actually was a decent person. She built this really harmful narrative in her head that Louis must be the spawn of Satan if Larry wasn’t real, so essentially, she just kept lying to herself so she could continue to love him. I’m glad that she now sees that gray areas exist, and I am hopeful that she can empathize with him in the future. 

Anyway, it’s nice to see that she is accepting some blame, though it would be nice to see a lot less excuses. She’s self-proclaimed OCD and she loves a timeline, so I’d like to see her come hard with the receipts and expose every single one of the remaining larries. I know she has the tea and I think it’s her duty to spill it all.

[peachesannndgravy]

Petition for Emmie Wattpad™ aka worshippedlove aka iftheresnolove aka harrystylesdefense aka thatsactuallystarlight aka a fkn joke, to change their icon to this:

All in favor?

[seasurfacefullofclouds1]

you hate the fact that Emmie reads your blog cause you can’t deny the facts that she gives or debunk them and it stops you from living in your little fantasy world

Do you understand the argument you’re making?

A person who asks to stop being verbally assaulted, SHOULD NOT BE ASSAULTED.

When someone asks not to be stalked, they deserve not to be stalked.

There is nothing excusing Emmie’s continued cyberbullying behavior.

She can have 100% proof of what she’s saying. That doesn’t excuse her creepy, unethical behavior.

When someone doesn’t want contact, LEAVE THEM ALONE. DO NOT CYBERSTALK THEM. DO NOT CONTACT THEM. DO NOT HOP ON THEIR POST.

LEAVE PEOPLE ALONE.

[seasurfacefullofclouds1]

Hey! I can't believe that awful person is still obsessed with you. I hope you know that I, as many other Louies, love and admire you, and your courage to speak the truth at all times, no matter how bitter. Please take care of yourself and don't let the nasty harries get into your head too much. 💙

Harries have already invalidated all their arguments with their emotions, anon. Emmie’s word vomits are like migraines in written form.

Thank you for your kind words.

[seasurfacefullofclouds1]

I’m sorry that person came on your blog... counted the amount of times you’ve mentioned Harry over the past few days but called you obsessed?? What a fucking weirdo. Those people need help, no joke.

If you go through certain Harrie blogs (people who liked Emmie’s post for example, or the flopped blog which frequents my blog up to 10 times per day), you don’t have to read much to feel sickened. They comb through the blogs of other fans and make mocking and abusive posts about them. It’s a sick sport for them— it’s bullying porn.

They are constantly mocking the mental health of other blogs (“get help, you sicko, I hope you have a therapist, you’re fucked in the head”), insulting the mentally ill while actively churning up mental distress. This is the hallmark of bullies and manipulators.

Finally, for anyone who feels an affinity to Emmie because she’s “on your side”— all the new Harries out there— take this advice from someone who’s experienced: BE CAREFUL. When you fall in with blogs like the flop blog and Emmie, you’re in the territory of amoral people. They’re not on your side. They care only about protecting themselves. They can list ten things they love about your blog and then stab you in the back the next second— because it’s happened over and over, to many people and through many years. Don’t take my word; talk to other people in the fandom for their experience. Everyone knows. Everyone.

Addendum 16 November 2021: add most Larrie Tumblr blogs to this category lol.

[guccixcoochie]

Hey, if u care the post you reblog about harry singing medicine was by a larrie.

@thatsactuallystarlight, she's not a larrie anymore anon. She's actually one of my all time fav harries here. You should follow her too.

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[yessoupy]

And people willingly follow her and other same minded people. Did I miss something? Where did R.S. call him or Medicine Pansexual? I just will never understand how so-called adults with experience, don't understand that how people label or not label themselves is up to them. Real life doesn't work that way.

RS calling Medicine’s hook pansexual: “One of the live fan favorites: ‘Medicine,’ a guitar jam that sounds a bit like the Grateful Dead circa Europe ‘72, but with a flamboyantly pansexual hook: ‘The boys and the girls are in/I mess around with them/And I’m OK with it.’”

That’s not calling him pansexual, and while she said “RS confirms the lyrics” we already had the lyrics confirmed a year ago, it’s only larries who said “him” and not “them” and that doesn’t actually change a damn thing about Harry Styles’ sexuality, but emmie seems to need him to identify how she identifies.

[yessoupy]

That’s Emmie (former worshippedlove)? I thought she was a Harrie, now?

yeah, that’s her. she says she’s a harrie but she behaves exactly the same way she behaved as a larrie. same projection bullshit. just making up shit.