who is this patriarchy you speak of? why are you surprised you’re getting the same energy you give off? Getting stuck with a rapist or abuser is 9/10 times due to you being a shitty judge of character, women feel 0 sympathy for men who get played financially or emotionally and often laugh saying it’s his fault. according to stats, rape rarely happens from random strangers, it’s usually people you let in your life, those closest to you. In other words, if women were more careful and discerning rape rates would go down. There are plenty of smart women around who don’t let themselves get abused or “raped” (newsflash: regretting a poorly judged one night stand isn’t rape), it’s just the less fortunate ones that are bitter about their own stupidity. If women were better judges of their environment and people, it’d happen much less. Instead, they deliberately and desperately seek attention from low quality men often in intoxicated environments and get surprised when low quality treatment occurs from inebriated people. So why? why call a person a victim if they put themselves in that situation? when is personal accountability for putting yourself in the situation going to occur? a lot of this could’ve been prevented if people were less naive and impulsive, women most especially.
