hi finley! i’m currently questioning my gender identity and i want to find a more gender neutral name. i was just wondering how you found a both a label and name that fits
Hi, friend! The answer there is that I found my labels and my name at different times. I actually figured out my sexuality before I even questioned my gender. Also, I personally like the broader gender labels, which is why I identify as nonbinary and genderqueer, but don’t feel the need to label further. I’m not a guy, and I’m not a girl. I’m just me.
As for names, I went through a few before I found this one that really fit. Try looking up lists of baby names (I actually looked for neutral names that existed around the time I was born, if you want to get specific). Also consider looking into entertainment you enjoy, like characters from books, movies, or games. Make yourself a list, and then go through one at a time and try them out!
