for the meme: stefonnie
leaves their dirty clothes on the floor: they are both generally pretty neat, but Bonnie is more likely to leave a trail of dirty clothes on the floor on the way to the shower (or a long hot bath) after a particularly long day. Stefan does not mind picking up after her, but mostly Bonnie cheats when she does that and uses magic to clean up after herself.forgets to run the dish washer: Bonnie prefers to hand wash dishes - it was something she would do with her Grams (and her dad, when he was in town) so she is not used to running the dish washer. now, washing dishes is a thing Stefan and Bonnie do together, ending up with them acting like little kids and splashing one another. (responsibility? what responsibility?)pumps gas for the car: always Stefan, because Bonnie once comments on how attractive he looks leaning against his car with his sunglasses and leather jacket - and also because Stefan has a thing about other people touching his car. (he barely lets Bonnie drive!)drives when they’re going somewhere: usually Stefan, because he has a thing about people touching his car. Bonnie is one of the few people he lets drive, but she is better with navigation, so she has the map and he drives. on longer trips, they take turns.rearranges the furniture: when Bonnie has nothing to do, she rearranges things in the house. she went on a feng shui kick once, and Stefan has since been resigned to the fact that his girlfriend will never be content to leave things as they are. she adores changing things around when she gets bored. (Stefan once asked why the television had to be angled just so and found himself thrown out of their room for a week. he has since taken to never questioning his girlfriend.)falls asleep with the TV on: Bonnie. always Bonnie. Stefan needs a ridiculously small amount of sleep (though he does enjoy sleep, he can be a very lazy bastard when he wants to be) and so finds it easy to stay awake. Bonnie used to wake up when Stefan tried to move her to the room, but she has since grown more used to him and the first time she slept through Stefan carrying her to their room, he was so smug (and in awe at the amount of trust and love she has for him).gets to use the bathroom first: it depends on who wakes up first. generally, it is Stefan because he is quicker and Bonnie has taken to indulging in late mornings.decides the temperature for the ac/heater: Bonnie, because Stefan has no concept of temperature whatsoever. she thinks he's ridiculous because he wears that leather jacket all the time. (sometimes she puts the ac on extremely cold temperatures and snuggles into him, because with that jacket on, he radiates warmth. he knows her secrets, and loves her all the more for it.)sets up holiday decorations: they both do, because they have both lost too many people to take spending holidays together for granted. Bonnie enjoys it much more than Stefan - he mostly does it for the smile that lights up her face. and to make fun of her height.leaves the lights on: Stefan. he is super rich so he never thinks about things like electricity bills. Bonnie was raised by a father (and grandmother) who never failed to remind her that the bills did not pay themselves. (also, now she simply places candles in all the rooms and as she enters them, they light up because magic.)uses the bathroom with the door open: Stefan loves the fact that Bonnie no longer hides the fact that she is ogling him when he is not wearing a shirt, so he leaves the bathroom door open when he's shaving and never wears a shirt while he does. Bonnie used to, because they are just that comfortable with each other, but their friends have no concept of personal space, so she has since stopped after they walked in without knocking one too many times.fixes the plumbing (or calls the plumber): Bonnie once tried fixing the plumbing with magic. the attic flooded. Stefan has no idea how she managed that, and now all plumbing related problems are handled by him.
