Hi Seo!! I think it's super sweet that you and a lot of other studyblrs are friends! I was wondering if you had any advice on becoming friends with other studyblrs? I've tried talking to people but it's never really worked out .n. I'd really love to be friends with more studyblrs!! I just...wish I knew how haha (could you tag your answer with #thewriterslament pls? That's my studyblr and it would be easier to find your reply if it was tagged ^^" tysm!!)
this is basically how i struggle and attempt to make friendships ahahaha
idk about other people, but usually, things like “can i be your friend” and “i want to be your friend” make me feel very anxious and awkward bc i’m like “yes all the yes” inside my tiny turtle shell but then, idk how to continue on the conversation and i start worrying if i’m boring the other person aaaaaaa
usually, most of the friends that i made just started up a super simple and casual conversation or i’d be like “HI IM SEO AND IM SORRY FOR BARGING INTO YOUR INBOX BUT I REALLY LIKED THE THING THAT YOU JUST DID AND I REALLY LIKE EGG TARTS TOO” and proceed to embarrass myself by babbling on too much abt stuff ;;
making friends is really just a touch-and-go kinda thing and you just feel it out for yourself bc not everyone will be the same!! but for me personally, i find it a lot more comfy and easy if the person just starts up a comfy conversation where i can easily talk back and express all of my ramblings ahahahaha (or i just try to send some decent shamble of a phrase to them first and i pray that i didn’t do anything bad ahahahahaha rip)
sorry, this didn’t seem quite so helpful, but it’s just based off of my experiences! hope this helped at least a bit!!
