Sometimes I look at the (truly) baby gays on the internet- like they're minors and go, "how do you know you are so young?" And then I remember that I grew up in a cult where exploring the concept of being gay wasn't even on my radar for me. Others could do it, but I was SOOOO far into comp het that being with another woman never even crossed my mind. And I was gonna get married in the temple, dammit! And you can't do that if you're marrying another woman.
And as we know old people (I'm not that old even) sometimes have a hard time relating to other youths whose experience is different from their own.
Anyway, the Youths will be okay. They know they're gay. I hope they realize they're in a cult (that ones that are anyway).








