#thoughtsofablackgirl

[the-modernblackgirl]

Door Shut

I’m convinced men have an internal subconscious alarm that goes off when a female is flourishing or going through it with her man because new prospects and the past always seem to find their way to…

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[lyricalafrodsiac]

So...

just now I saw a post saying yall have a hard time maintaining dominance with black women and being openly emotional with us so you just cant see yourself dating us.....

but what bothered me was, 

the notes where mostly from people who spend all day lusting after us. 

so what you saying is.....we only acceptable as long as we visually pleasing to you and silent? 

since when is it impossible to express emotions to the group who has yo back in almost every situation? 

even when we get constantly thrown under the bus and our suffering goes undefended. 

even when we get called bitter or angry for standing up for ourselves.

even when we have every reason to be aggressive because in other races an aggressive woman is celebrated, as if she's some kind of super woman for standing up for herself 

but now all of a sudden you can’t express yourself? 

oh ok. 

[the-modernblackgirl]

You either want us to put our hands up, or you want us to give you our identification?

Diamond Reynolds, girlfriend of #PhilandoCastile

[the-modernblackgirl]

Sasha & Malia Obama At Presidential Turkey Pardon. I need Sasha outfit like now. 

-Pierre

[imjustamixture]

Inspirational quotes always have a picture with white people in the backgroud

[imjustamixture]

"That's just me"

I really hate when you try to tell somebody that what they said or how they said it was rude and then they're like "that's just me though." Like ugh. No. If you're constantly saying bitchy things or being a dick. That means you're a bitch or you're a dick.... That's "just you" 😒

[the-modernblackgirl]

Who else’s bed looked wrecked when they got up this morning? I was so tired! I do not like my pillows touching the floor, but my sleeping self obviously didn’t mind. -Tie

[the-modernblackgirl]

But why must I flex my fall style in the end of Summer, in Charlotte? OOTD yesterday. Yes I wore this to work, lol. When they ask why I’m wearing black, I tell them I’m in mourning. -Tie