omg please spill more of the tea. ive disliked the perverse server ever since nearly all the members of a different, mostly sfw roy/jamie server flocked over there instead and left us with a barren wasteland with hardly any life and conversations remaining
(i'm exaggerating, part of it is that this show has been over for 18+ months and people lose interest and move on but also. our server was never the same afterwards, we didn't really recover)
omg im so sorry for what tip did to your server bc your server was the first royjamie server i ever joined and you were all very friendly and it was a nice intro to the fandom. i really wish that had never happened to your community
ill tell you one of the things that pissed me the fuck off the most
i got fired from being a mod because chell and two other white mods were uncomfortable with me calling something they were doing out as racist (i was the only mod of color). one of these mods was upset that i named that i was a person of color while trying to explain my perspective bc it made her feel like "her voice did not matter as a white person," something i never implied
the two other white mods were allies to me though; they both eventually stepped down due to being unable to tolerate the racist/ableist/generally insane and controlling environment. and being bullied out lol
the first one who stepped down did so due to harassments and alienation from the mod group for being my friend and ally to me in some conversations about race and policing. they were pressured into stepping down because they were constantly criticized for being, and i quote, "too emotional"
when their mother had literally just passed two weeks earlier.
chells beef was that they were too emotional while trying to advocate for me as a person of color in the racist tip server modding environment when they were literally GRIEVING…... i was also constantly criticized for being "too emotional" something that definitely had nothing to do w me being a trans person of color at all huh
the other ally mod has stepped down as of this morning. the tip/this is perverse mod team as it stands is just garbage