#tk discourse

[giggleeclown]

Coming back to the building to remind yall if you’re intentionally shaming the sfw tk community into thinking their thoughts are inherently sexual you are not only wrong but behaving very poorly and erasing many voices in the equation.

First of all, if you’re taking this stance you’re downright wrong. It would not exist to this capacity if it was inherently an arousal based act. There will always be more information proving that you are wrong than there will be proving you’re right.

Second of all, you are really weird for assuming or flat out telling someone over the internet, a complete stranger, what they are into. It’s highly inappropriate (and low-key kind of creepy?) to go around guessing things about others’ intimate thoughts. (Also I see you people saying ‘it’s just a bunch of minors who haven’t blossomed into their kinks yet) and to that… I raise to you that you are disgusting for even going there and thinking about underaged people like that.

(Also, even if this IS the case for some… okay? And? It is still not proving your point the way you want it to and they are still not disgusting for how they processed their self discovery as long as they did it humanely and without harm. I’d also like to point out as someone with OCD and autism that this kind of stigma is VERY dangerous for people with ego dystonic disorders. Calling people predators, deviants, etc. over something harmless like this is an extremely weighted thing to say and can cost someone their mental health, or even their life in some extreme cases.)

Also once again we love our daily dose of aero/acespec/sex repulsed erasure because clearly you did not think about them in this equation, as always.

Thirdly, involving irl and fandom based work… have you considered how this works with platonic relationships? Familial connections? Let’s not forget this, for most, stemmed from childhood and never developed into anything more than an act of bonding. Are people in the community who express their love to their friends and family in this manner displaying misconduct in your eyes?

The entire argument is not structurally sound on any level and does not appeal to either side of the community. It is solely based on assumptions and stereotypes. I’m all for disputing those who very clearly have the kink and are hiding behind a sfw front for whatever reason, but putting others into a box over their coping mechanisms and bonding practices, no matter how unusual they may be to you, quite literally proves why so many in this community feel the need to be so discreet and careful with their feelings towards something extremely harmless and scientifically proven to be a part of our playful genetic coding as a species.

Please educate yourself and be kind. It’s already intimate and complicated, but just because it’s hard to explain doesn’t mean we get to ignore literally every context clue regarding such and slap a misinformed label on it.

That being said, ily normal nsfw community I will never bash on you even if I do not share the same sentiment.

Take care and stay nuanced!

[fluffymary]

I suspect this account is from qwerty. He sent me an unsolicited sex pic along with a death threat.

Block and report on sight!!!

(If you ask, don't worry, Im alright!!)

[fluffymary]

Do you remember the chaos that went on during May of 2022?

The time were anons were harassing many artists, me included, and the main suspect (and headquarter, apparently) was tmfromhell?

Well...

Sid just revealed to me their identity.

Below are some screenshots of TM himself speaking with this person. For the sake of social security (i may be exposing, but I ain't doxxing), the url is hidden. Unless you really wish to see who they are, DM me first./srs

It's clear that TM is really tired from what happened, however their frustration prevented him from handling the situation properly.

As for the anon...They wrote an apology.

However, this doesn't justify nor appeals the amount of d3ath threats (or threats in general) they've sent across the community, let alone to people who didn't do anything wrong in the first.

You be the judge. As for me, I'm glad that the anon hate in general has died down (aside from the bitcheless anons that cry over Bleu getting laid before them 🖕), and that TM has shown a little bit of decency after that hellhole.

[fluffymary]

This entire community has EVERYTHING but basic social skills sometimes

[fluffymary]

No no not that one, ugh i better leave that ask again

I just asked since is more than clear we're understanding eachother and that's more than cool what about this: isn't it better in this case start to tag that certain content keeping in mind people's boundaries?

For example i have my own tumblr blog here, and some of my followers told me certain topics i've talked before were triggering for them (for example boundage, torture, boop boths etc), so that's why i started to tag it so they can avoid it. I thinked this could be a good idea to start doing it

The thing is, there's people who are doing that already.

For reasonsTM I can't exactly list them since sometimes i don't pay attention to the tags, or I just haven't stumbled with those blogs yet (or, yk, short term memory).

But sure, we should be doing it. It's about controlling our media and such yanno?

[fluffymary]

Not the same anon respect to the tk discussion about the copypasta hater, but i wanted to say something too because yah we're talking about it

But don't try to hang me with this opinion yall but i actually thinked the anon meant with disturbing things just things they don't like but in a poor and troll way, so in that case i assume they just want yall to tag ur content with #boundage, #tiggletorture, #any other boundary people has basically, cuz, as a person who has certain triggers and went tru certain things, don't want to feel bad by just looking at that content again, and maybe that could help to some people??? I think that's the whole problem about this and why it happened in the first place

But you got my point right?

Yessir!

That's a fair point, actually.

But they completely missed it with offering #disturbing for the whole package.

[fluffymary]

Ohhh i see that happened too

Well of course it's not the way to say all those things but, you see we all have our boundaries right? Idk u but besides that weird anon, isn't it best to tag the content with tags that point out those boundaries?? I think besides it was weird all that it's something we must try to do-

Your point is valid!

As a whole, we are responsible for the media we interact with. We block out the tags we don't want to see to ensure we don't get so drained from the damage.

However, one must also be responsible for the media they post. Using trigger tags is an example. Eye strain, blood, horror, political or mental health topics like ableism and so, etc.

To say we tag our content as being "disturbing"....yeah no thanks.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I personally don't use a bondage tag much. Mainly because my content is, most of the time, "family friendly". Sure at some point there's an exception, but even some exceptions are valid (like bondage that includes getting stuck on something, like vines or physical weight).

The tags I use sometimes for specific content are tags for IRL tickle content (because, fair, you don't fancy the real stuff and prefer fiction, I do too) and another where a woman is a lee (because, yk, ✨stereotypes✨ and also not many people fancy the woman ticklee in bikinis). So there's that.

But to say you want me to tag all my content with that tag? Might as well block me now that we're at it, why don'tcha.

Anyways, haters be hatin and I hope that anon gets onions on their sandwich (from a person that loathes onions)

[fluffymary]

Talking about this for curiosity ignore if u want but, opinions about that copypasta anon? I mean they sound like a troll but... if u think about it, they may... have a point with that idk-

WAKE UP SILLIES ITS TEA TIME 🍵🍵🍵🍵

For context, shun got this ask.

Then sid got that same ask, every word the same.

THEN I got that same ask, but because I didn't know at first, I deleted it. Mostly because I couldn't understand it.

Cass also got that ask but on her nsfw blog.

Not really sure if that anon thought they did summin but. Tagging our stuff as #disturbing is not the way to go.

Basically