I'm 17 and I want a baby. I know, I know, this is insanely stupid. And trust me: I don't want to want kids. But lately my bf and I have been joking around about marrying and building a family. So this time in the middle of sex he said "our baby is coming" and weirdly enough, it turned me more on. So he kept saying it and I omg I loved it. He was wearing a condom of course but I actually wished he wasnt. I don't know what the hell is going on with me. I'm so creeped out
i…think this might be a fetish or a really big kink or just a kink in general for you?
i don’t think you should actually have a child, not at this age, but as a fetish or kink, it’s not normal, persay, but ah well! i say don’t worry about it!
I see that you’re not comfortable with this situation. Maybe, as tartkiss said it’s some kind of fetish for you. But don’t worry, a lot of people got one!
I’m glad you understand that having a baby at this age isn’t really ideal because you still have a lot to go through. I believe waiting is best option along with a open talk with your boyfriend, depending on the level of seriousness of your relationship. Maybe you do get married in the future, who knows? :D
And remember that biologically this is women’s most fertile period. Your hormones have definitely something to do with it. It could be just a phase till they settle down.
Not to mention that some women were born to be mothers! You must be one of them with this mother’s instinct of yours ^_^ I think it’s great that you’re discovering more about yourself because that can help you to plan your future!
Meanwhile, organize your thoughts and ideas so that you make a great life decison!
I hope this helps!! Have a great day!!