headcanon: that for once when rhodey calls tony and asks him if everything is fine, tony truthfully says that "no" and tells him what's wrong
The most realistic setting for this to happen that comes to my mind is right after Civil War.
Tony’s at his wits end, let’s be honest.
Over the course of a few days, he was threatened by Ross, had to arrest his teammates (his family), watched his best friend get almost killed. He was blamed, over and over again, he almost had a heart attack.
He fought for his life after having to watch the murder of his parents on a fucking video tape - and he had to live through Steve, whom he’d thought he could trust, telling him that HE had known all along who had been responsible for the murder of Tony’s parents.
He probably hasn’t slept that much. He’s hurting all over, emotionally and physically. There’s barely anything left for Tony.
When Rhodey calls him, it’d be late at night. And Tony answers despite knowing he probably doesn’t have it in him to put up a strong facade.
Rhodey doesn’t even say something at first, there’s just silence for a moment and then
And Tony breaks. Think of him doing this desperate “I’m trying not to fall apart” smile that rips your heart out of your chest with how much HURT is in that smile before he chokes out “No. No i’m not.”