#trans headmate

[hermaphro-dyke]

Systems should AT LEAST get a lot more leeway by exclusionists when discussing their trans identity by their own made up rules. Headmates that have their own separate experiences from others in the system, form after a system's transition/puberty/reassignment, or form with a predetermined-for-them sex/gender will experience different social pressures and misalignment in regards to their gender identity, that's just how it goes.

[ladybugdolls]

I think I may be experiencing trans joy

Being transfem in a cis female body, getting to dress up in a nice outfit on a sunny day

I haven't felt this quiet happiness in a long time (I just wish it was still autumn)

[meeresbande]

Putting on the binder and skirt combo, it's the only thing that can make me feel better now.

[meeresbande]

Hmmm, time to think about us and trans*...

I mean, we know that some of us are trans*, basically everyone who doesn't identify as a girl, woman or female can identify as trans* if they want to (some don't, they are cis boys or men in a womans body, deal with it (because they have their own inner male bodies and don't identify that strongly with the outer body)). Some of us do identify as trans*, some don't.

But... I don't know... does it make sense to identify as anything as a system? Like we as a system could say our gender is non-binary. Whicvh would make us as a system trans*, right? Or what? But, some of us are girls or women, they're cis. But we share this body with trans* peeps and that affects our lives as well and our gender presentation and everything. I don't know.

Like, if we were to talk to someone about our gender but not come out as multiples to them, we'd say "I'm non-binary, it's a bit like being genderfluid only not quite and yeah, trans*"

OK I don't really know what my/our question is here, but we're sort of confused? I think we'd like to talk to other genderqueer/trans*/multiples about this stuff...

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