[loreinc]

"transfem/transmasc are not gender terms they are terms for where you stand in society"

(^often said to minimize intersex people's "weird" gender identities)

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as an intersex person i am put into such an othered box i take up space as ""both types"" of trans people, while being ousted from those spaces at the same time.

I face issues on all sides no matter what i do (born inherently out of the norm), and am abandoned by my own community because perisex trans people hardly can handle experiences outside of their norm..

sooooooo, no. it's not as simple as "wether you fit the actual definition of these words or not doesn't matter because i will still categorize you based on your a strict binary of 'afab trans person=tmasc' and 'amab trans person=tfem' and presume all your experiences based on that.. #intersectionality!!^^"

[dakotacnyan]

I love you with transfems pmos / pcos.

I love you transfems with hypospadias or vulval hypospadias.

I love you transfems with epispadias or vulval epispadias.

I love you transfems with clitoromegaly.

I love you transfems with clitoral clitoral hyposplasia or atresia.

I love you transfems with NCAH, CAH-X or CAH.

I love you transfems with Turner's syndrome.

I love you transfems with hyperandrogenism.

I love you transfems with mesoandrogenism.

I love you transfems with hypoandrogenism

I love you transfems with hyperestrogenism.

I love you transfems with mesoestrogenism.

I love you transfems with hyperprogesteronism.

I love you transfems with hypoprogesteronism.

I love you transfems with hyperprogestrogenism.

I love you transfems with mesoprogestrogenism.

I love you transfems with low sbhg.

I love you transfems with high sbhg.

I love you transfems with tubular breasts

I love you transfems with urethral duplication.

I love you transfems with urethral triplication.

I love you transfems with urethral multiplication.

I love you transfems with vaginal hypoplasia or atresia.

I love you transfems with polands syndrome.

I love you transfems with labial hypoplasia or aplasia.

I love you transfems with irregular or non existent periods.

I love you transfems with mosaicism or chimerism.

I love you transfems with vaginal septums.

I love you transfems with hemivaginas.

I love you transfems with hymenal differences.

I love you transfems with ambiguous genitalia.

I love you transfems sawyers symdrome.

I love you transfems with cais, pais, mais (androgen insensitivity syndrome.)

I love you transfems with ceis, peis, meis (estrogen insensitivity syndrome.)

I love you transfems with PUGs.

I love you transfems with Keplers syndrome.

I love you transfems with chromosomal differences.

I love you transfems with total, partial, mixed or otherwise specified gonadal dysgenisis.

I love you transfems with uterine hypoplasia or aplasia.

I love you transfems with streak gonads.

I love you transfems with Jacob's syndrome.

I love you transfems with genital chordee.

I love you transfems with microchimerism.

I love you transfems with micro penises.

I love you transfems with biphallia.

I love you transfems with unicorn or separate uterine.

I love you transfems with ovitesties.

I love you transfems with estrogen resistance.

I love you transfems with micromastia or amastia.

I love you transfems with gonadal multiplication.

I love you transfems with gonadal hypoplasia or agenisis.

I love you transfems with undiscovered variations.

I love you transfems are close to female.

I love you transfems with are close to male.

I love you transfems close to androgynous.

I love you transfems who are close to neither.

I love you intersex transfems who are professionally diagnosed or recognised.

I love you intersex transfems who are self diagnosed or questioning.

I love you transfems who are intersex adjacent.

I love you transfems who are perisexn't.

I love you transfems who are generally just intersex and not want to or can't specify any further.

I love you transfems who share their variations online.

I love you transfems who don't or won't share their variations online.

I love you transfems who don't know or can't find out their variations.

I love you transfems who are out as intersex.

I love you transfems who are not out as intersex.

I love you transfems who are ersex.

I love you transfems with unknown variations.

I love you transfems with multiple variations.

I love you transfems with mixed variations.

I love you intersex transfems.

I love you transfems.

[insanitize]

that's crazy lol hey unrelated you wanna guess what happens when you search sister on this blog

[dakotacnyan]

Afab transfems are valid and so are transfemmascs.

[dakotacnyan]

Nonbinary, genderqueer and intersex people don't owe you; sex, agab, tme / tma status, what's in their pants, fertility status, conformity or any other kind of information along those lines.

Systems or plurals don't owe you their; origin/s, alter / head count, hosts name, triggers, disorder status, diagnosis status etc.

People don't owe you private information on command.

[transfemme-shelterdog]

Allen just called me brave for asking a trans woman not to call testosterone poison in a MTF only space.

What's the worst that's gonna happen? They gonna ban me?

[transfemme-shelterdog]

Death threats

[transfemme-shelterdog]

Cool so trans guys on T are poisoning themselves. Fantastic rhetoric we got here Reddit.

Fuck that site.

[failure-artist]

so pretty much the same thing the transphobes and terfs are saying about trans men injecting T, but it's okay because...?

[transfemme-shelterdog]

Because they're trans women and have trauma around testosterone I guess?

[hermaphro-dyke]

It sucks because I didn't even choose to go on T as an alter. According to everyone in public i'm a man, i'm still vulnerable to transphobic violence. I still get called slurs. People still freak out when I go to the womens bathroom.

If I identified as a cis man like I did several months ago no one would bat an eye, but no I guess my transition didn't count.

I don't know, a little bit of grace for the crossover of plurality and intersex/trans identity would go a long way.

[vexatiousvic]

Blocklist

@/mean-multiple

Intersexism in the purest form, and it's fucking WILD to see it from a system

This is not feminism. This is bigotry, pure and evil

[catcake24]

“AFAB ppl can’t be transfem!”

Hey, quick question, why do you hate intersex people? Additionally, why do you hate other trans people?

[intersexcultureis]

Intersex transfem culture is having bouts of being terrified TRFs are right and I’m actually being transphobic and transmisogynistic without meaning to trying to find community and feeling comfortable in my skin using the transfem label… Until I see them say something just full on eugenicist disguised as transfeminism and feel better again, until the next bout of fear at least. I can’t seem to stop cycling and battling with it no matter how many times I see they’re just hateful.

intersex transfem culture is...

[vilfboy]

What if I said an intersex persons right to gatekeep "amab, afab, and agab" is more important than a perisex persons comfort 😩🫶

I feel like if I had the reach I would get yelled at for this by perisex folk

[hermaphro-dyke]

At this point i’m taking TRFs saying “intersex people aren’t a third sex/biologically trans” to be a dogwhistle for “I think all intersex people are Males And Females With DSDs”

[hermaphro-dyke]

I know when I get talked about by the way and I know you’re making assumptions about my transition, what i’ve been through and what we’ve dealt with as a system. If you vague about me you’re a loser who hates intersex transfems

[transfemme-shelterdog]

"Trans women have it worse than trans men!"

"Trans men have it worse than trans women!"

[purpleflameb0i]

I'm being so serious right now if you think "AFAB transfem" is TERF rhetoric then block me

You don't get to put down experiences that you don't understand and call it bigotry just because it seems ridiculous to you

I'M intersex and that has affected MY gender experiences and I AM transfem and transmasc and people don't get to just put those down for whatever reason

[transfemme-shelterdog]

"Consanguineous relationships"

[hermaphro-dyke]

Based AF username

Thank you I am the original hermaphrodyke

[llulamoon]

Has anyone else noticed the "read Whipping Girl" posts and comments have exponentially died down since this statement from Julia Serano was spread around recently.

It also feels like people have gotten more aggressive and hostile since then.

Maybe I've just blocked so many people I don't see it anymore but it really seems that people started going silent about Whipping Girl after seeing this :pp

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