[dakotacnyan]

Nonbinary, genderqueer and intersex people don't owe you; sex, agab, tme / tma status, what's in their pants, fertility status, conformity or any other kind of information along those lines.

Systems or plurals don't owe you their; origin/s, alter / head count, hosts name, triggers, disorder status, diagnosis status etc.

People don't owe you private information on command.

[transfemme-shelterdog]

Allen just called me brave for asking a trans woman not to call testosterone poison in a MTF only space.

What's the worst that's gonna happen? They gonna ban me?

[transfemme-shelterdog]

Death threats

[transfemme-shelterdog]

Cool so trans guys on T are poisoning themselves. Fantastic rhetoric we got here Reddit.

Fuck that site.

[failure-artist]

so pretty much the same thing the transphobes and terfs are saying about trans men injecting T, but it's okay because...?

[transfemme-shelterdog]

Because they're trans women and have trauma around testosterone I guess?

[hermaphro-dyke]

It sucks because I didn't even choose to go on T as an alter. According to everyone in public i'm a man, i'm still vulnerable to transphobic violence. I still get called slurs. People still freak out when I go to the womens bathroom.

If I identified as a cis man like I did several months ago no one would bat an eye, but no I guess my transition didn't count.

I don't know, a little bit of grace for the crossover of plurality and intersex/trans identity would go a long way.

[vexatiousvic]

Blocklist

@/mean-multiple

Intersexism in the purest form, and it's fucking WILD to see it from a system

This is not feminism. This is bigotry, pure and evil

[catcake24]

“AFAB ppl can’t be transfem!”

Hey, quick question, why do you hate intersex people? Additionally, why do you hate other trans people?

[intersexcultureis]

Intersex transfem culture is having bouts of being terrified TRFs are right and I’m actually being transphobic and transmisogynistic without meaning to trying to find community and feeling comfortable in my skin using the transfem label… Until I see them say something just full on eugenicist disguised as transfeminism and feel better again, until the next bout of fear at least. I can’t seem to stop cycling and battling with it no matter how many times I see they’re just hateful.

intersex transfem culture is...

[vilfboy]

What if I said an intersex persons right to gatekeep "amab, afab, and agab" is more important than a perisex persons comfort 😩🫶

I feel like if I had the reach I would get yelled at for this by perisex folk

[hermaphro-dyke]

At this point i’m taking TRFs saying “intersex people aren’t a third sex/biologically trans” to be a dogwhistle for “I think all intersex people are Males And Females With DSDs”

[hermaphro-dyke]

I know when I get talked about by the way and I know you’re making assumptions about my transition, what i’ve been through and what we’ve dealt with as a system. If you vague about me you’re a loser who hates intersex transfems

[transfemme-shelterdog]

"Trans women have it worse than trans men!"

"Trans men have it worse than trans women!"

[purpleflameb0i]

I'm being so serious right now if you think "AFAB transfem" is TERF rhetoric then block me

You don't get to put down experiences that you don't understand and call it bigotry just because it seems ridiculous to you

I'M intersex and that has affected MY gender experiences and I AM transfem and transmasc and people don't get to just put those down for whatever reason

[transfemme-shelterdog]

"Consanguineous relationships"

[hermaphro-dyke]

Based AF username

Thank you I am the original hermaphrodyke

[llulamoon]

Has anyone else noticed the "read Whipping Girl" posts and comments have exponentially died down since this statement from Julia Serano was spread around recently.

It also feels like people have gotten more aggressive and hostile since then.

Maybe I've just blocked so many people I don't see it anymore but it really seems that people started going silent about Whipping Girl after seeing this :pp

What Is Transmisogyny?

My 2007 book Whipping Girl is probably best known for two things: It popularized “cis” terminology (which I did not coin) and introduced…

[theforesteldritch]

FUCK THE IOC. Fuck the IOC, fuck their bullshit, fuck the Olympics. I’m so fucking angry right now.

[theforesteldritch]

And of course none of you fuckers are talking about how this ban is also targeting countless intersex athletes. And the few posts I’ve seen that so much as mention us say DSD instead of intersex. What the fuck will it take for you to even consider, let alone also actually care and advocate for us too.

[theforesteldritch]

I saw someone saying it ‘could potentially target intersex people too’ A SIGNIFICANT PORTION OF THE FUCKING POLICY DOCUMENT IS ABOUT HOW IT TARGETS INTERSEX PEOPLE WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE

[hermaphro-dyke]

"You can't be trans if you have xyz experience or genitalia because what is there to transition?"

The bar is SO LOW for what can be trans and you HAVE to accept that or you can continue to be a transmedicalist.

I'm sorry that it makes YOU uncomfortable that other trans people have unique experiences that don't match you, but that is not their problem.

[fvckw4d]

"Are you tme or tma?" "Are you amab or afab?" "Are you trans or cis?" Im not even gonna tell you if im a man or a woman or whatever. I guess you'll have to project gendered stereotypes onto my behavior the old fashioned way.