Tris(8lue)fairywings tips? In a few of my past lives I had 8lue fairy wings and i miss them... if this is hard to read i can send in another anon message!
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- The simplest thing to do is buy a pair! There are a lot of options online. If you're looking for something more realistic/similar to insect or bird wings I would look into places that sell renfaire cosplay pieces (though these can be pricey). If you want something more stereotypically "fairy" or cheaper, I would look at costume stores (you could also modify some cheap ones from a costume store to look nicer/more your style).
- If the idea of buying wings to wear makes you dysphoric it may help to think of them as prosthetics or decorations for your wings!
- If you want to be more subtle or don't want people asking too many questions, I would recommend a shawl, cape, or cowl in the right color/pattern! Raver shops seem to have a lot of butterfly capes/shawls (and a lot of them are very sparkly or light up if you're into that), or you could seek out something crochet on etsy or another platform for more texture (or hand make it if you have the ability). These items can also cover your wings while reminding you of their weight, rather than representing your wings directly.
- Coordinate outfits/accessories to accentuate them!
- Meditate, learn to be more in tune with your body and your wings. Feel them flutter, brush into things, or fold down. If they come and go, take notice of why and maybe encourage them to stick around! Past life meditation and daydreaming of when you had your wings can also help.
-If you end up wearing wings, it can help to notice the space they take up and how your movement changes to accommodate them, you may even start to change your movement when you're not wearing them!
Hope this was helpful! I could also help you find a specific item if you wanted!