I think male heterosexuality is more socially constructed than homosexuality. Like that anon pointed out, in Ancient Greece you weren’t any less heterosexual if you wanted to top another man. The Romans so famously partook in this that they were derogatorily labeled boy lovers by people that were less receptive to male x male sexual relations, because unlike the Romans they did believe that engaging in homosexual sex made a man less masculine regardless of their role (top or bottom).
But my thing is this. Even in non-Western cultures where sexuality operates differently, the gender identity attraction isn’t much of a thing….Homosexual males in the East exclusively date and sleep with masculine cis men. The homosexual females exclusively date and sleep with feminine cis women. So I’m unsure why I’m seeing arguments claiming that you’re not acknowledging the nuances of sexual attraction because you don’t believe that a lesbian will experience attraction to a pre-transition trans woman. That’s not a thing anywhere except among virtue signaling queer theorists. Anyone is free to correct me if I’m wrong
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