why is love such a scary, weird, confusing, crazy rollercoaster of emotions?
like, we have no control over it. You can’t choose who you love, then you have the danger of falling more and more for that person, once that person goes and dates someone else, your heart chatters, with no reason but the fact you fell in love. You can choose to confess your feelings, but you’ll either be too scared, or you do tell them and they don't like you back. But on the rare occasion, they do like you back, you’ll go out, and you’ll live happily ever after, right? wrong.
You have the chance that the person falls outta love, you have the chance that person wasn't really in love in the first place, or they cheat on you or they cheat on someone with you.
Now let's talk about falling in love, its a scary feeling. It can cause you to physically be like “noooo, no no no” specifically, and more likely, when you've been in a relationship before. You are scared of falling, in fear of getting your heartbroken. But what if you've not been in love before? falling in love is probably scarier, you don't really know what's happening, what the feeling is. It can cause you to feel sick. Maybe you're in a relationship cause you like the person and you think you’re in love, but halfway into the relationship you officially fall in love slowly, for me that's the scariest. You don't know if you’re falling in or out of love. In some cases, some folk feel this and either distance themselves from the person and maybe even dump them.
People always say love is great, make it sound easy, make the feeling of falling in love sound like the best thing ever, but is it really?