#tucute

[werethropy]

"The nonbinary afab who goes by she/her, dresses femininely, and uses a push-up bra when I—" when you what? What's wrong with her?

Is she not nonbinary enough for you? Is the way she experiences her queerness and how she presents not perfect enough for you? Nonbinary people don't owe you androgyny, right? So why is she the exception? Why does she have to hate herself to appeal to your standards? Why is she any less trans—any less worthy of respect—cause it's "not visible"? Queer solidarity my ass. Don't spout this bullshit on Pride, man.

[skykittywhatchamahcallit]

I think this is an incredibly important video to watch

[tampon-eater]

The thing with the whole “nondysphoric trans people are faking being trans because they think it’s trendy” is like. If they’re lying about being trans why wouldn’t they lie about having dysphoria. Like personally if I was going to fake something I wouldn’t half-ass it. “Hmm yeah okay I’ll pretend to be a different gender but pretending to have dysphoria feels just a little too dishonest you know?” Why not go the whole hog

[lgbtqiatext]

[jamesmirandabarry]

I am SOOO tired of the “trans men can’t be lesbians” discourse.

I fear you guys just don’t get the life experience of being a trans man (who used to be perceived as a woman and still is by some people) who likes only women. I am never going to be a cisgender man and I don’t want to be. I am a man in most social scenarios but in romantic ones I am a butch. Living in our heteronormative society, being on T but with no surgeries, I feel more aligned with the butch romantic experience than cisgender men.

Women who are attracted to me still like female bodies. I haven’t had any surgeries and I don’t want them. I’m simply on T, which means I am seen as a man by society…with all my clothes on. I’m a man with a female body. Both of these things exist at the same time, it’s just part of my lived reality. This means I’m seen as a man to broader society, which is my goal, but I still have a female body which effects how I navigate the world. This includes in healthcare/reproductive rights and also sexually.

If a lesbian is only attracted to femininity, then yes, she won’t like me and I don’t want her to. But if she likes masculinity and female bodies, which very much can be the case in lesbianism, then yes, I am in that category. To say that lesbians can’t like masculinity is extremely reductive tbh and erases butches entirely.

[whereserpentswalk]

I'm seeing so many posts pushing trans people to look more like normie cishet people in order to be fully transitioned. It feels like truscum are re-evolving. It feels like people are seeing any trans person being slightly gnc as a conspiracy against them.

If you don't support pre everything transfem butches you don't support trans people.

If you don't support pre everything transmasc femboys you don't support trans people.

If you don't support enbies who look like cis men or cis women but don't identify as men or women at all you don't support trans people.

[anguiano786w]

Melody

[enbundad-discourse]

So I'm seeing a lot of transmed discord on tiktok. Haven't been on here as much to see it here but I figure we're probably having this argument again.

I'm currently going to college for medical billing and coding. I'm also getting my top surgery in 12 days. When I got my letter for my surgery being approved by insurance, I looked through the paperwork quickly and I noticed that the diagnosis was not gender dysphoria. That's strange, the diagnosis that was on the letter for my surgeon was gender dysphoria.

I was confused so I went into my ICD-10-CM manual and found that the code used had a few diagnoses listed under it.

Meaning that being diagnosed as ANY of these means the treatment related to that will receive that code unless there is a separate one that is more accurate. Let's take a look at what's listed here.

Gender dysphoria, okay.

Gender identity disorder, alright.

Gender incongruence? You mean the thing that transmeds cry isn't what makes you trans?

WILL YOU FUCKERS TAKE THIS AS PROOF THAT SAYING YOU DON'T NEED GENDER DYSPHORIA TO BE TRANS WILL NOT STRIP US OF OUR HEALTHCARE?!

Probably not, because you don't care about facts. You care about feeling like you're better than other people. You just want to put down people who experience gender differently than you.