110% agreed on that. 8 times out of 10 it's for their enjoyment, not yours. And when it is, Kai wouldn't stop talking about how embarrassing your behavior is. He acts all high and mighty and so, so disgusted by you (he isn't, of course he's getting a kick out of it) and tries to see just how far you're willing to go to get hurt. I see him as someone who's really into severe physical abuse (for the lack of a better word). Very much into stepping on you, kicking you, rubbing his shoes all over your face to show you that you're less than the dirt underneath him 💖 But he never really touches you with his hands - you don't deserve that.
Maybe he makes you lick the floor before you get that spanking you want so bad. 🤭
Sir is just. Silent. Of course he says something about your behavior from time to time (so when he does, it really stings), but he's more of a 'show, don't tell' type. So you want to be punished, hm? Let's see how long it takes until you're begging to get out, until you're just a blubbering mess. And unlike Overhaul, he's very generous with his aftercare 😂