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wow so your a cunt, alright. Well thanks for showing your true colors sae. I hope you grow the fuck up, cause cgler isn't kink you fucking retard.

I'm showing my true colors by having boundaries? Interesting. :/ Also having boundaries means I haven't grown up? More interesting seeing as I was taught boundaries when I was 26/27 by a licensed professional in dbt. but alright. I mean what do I know. =/

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Please don't send me kinky or lewd or like 'thirsty' messages. If your horny, that's great for you. I guess, but like... I don't actually care. So like... don't tell me. Cause my response isn't going to be like 'oooo' its going to be like 'thats nice, i don't give a fuck.'

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What are your problems with kink? I'm just curious?

I have personal reasons behind it which I’ve posted about on here before. Sum it up simply, I’ve been in two relationships that were around kink, and 24/7 relationships. Both ended really badly for me, and in both cases I experienced trauma. I’m not comforting detailing my first one. In my very last relationship I was in a DD/lg relationship and I was abused, my ex would flush my meds, make me believe I’m crazy, hurt me a lot, scream at me, and he would hurt himself and say I did it too him, and when I broke up with him, he focused on trying to destroy me. He shared my bank info, stalked me online, tried to get my childhood best friend to hate me, and try to get her to believe some really messed up stuff. ( I was on call with her, and he was on my skype typing, and then sent her a request and said something like ‘wow, so sae just told me she wrote a bunch of stuff to you, and said it was me. I’m sorry she’s so bat shit crazy’ even though my bestie was actually on call with me, and I had my hands up and I was like “I’m not actually typing any of this”. )And some of my kinky friends turned on me and told me to just let him “cane” me for my “baddness”, Because I broke up with him. Which is bad?? Both of these relationships still have a lot for me to process and my current BF - Chris . He is great and supportive and he finds it sad. Because people also took advantage of my dissociation state. I have other experiences too, from stuff like safe words, to stuff like subdrop. To going to local munches and listening to people talk about actually abusing people. And it all rubbed me the wrong way. I’m well aware there are actually people who do kink, and can be “normal”. And aren’t weird, but I realized people who are focused around nothing but kink are the ones too avoid. And as for online my issues is really simple - There should be sites for kinksters/people of age to access and those are the sites adults should be posting there “adult” content too. I think it keeps adults in a safe place, and it keeps children and minors and people who are sexually repulsed away from things that make them uncomfortable, and things they shouldn’t be around. Its like for awhile I really liked pinterested because there flagging system actually works and there blocking system actually works. So if a kinkster tries to follow you who only pins idk - spanking. You can report there pins and and also you can block them, and pinterest typically removed people who get enough complaints. (So I would just raid there porn board and tick off as many as I can. XD) And accounts get removed that way. But yeah. I think kinksters truly need there own platform. Tumblr isn’t it, neither is pinterest. I’ve heard people leave fetlife due to dude’s begging for sex. But like they need to create a platform that actually works. Idk - I don’t “hate” people who are kinky. I just don’t want to be included in it. And I don’t really want to talk about it. It’s a topic that can make me uncomfortable quickly. And I know apart of it is human nature. And I don’t actually believe anyone is “bad” for having kinks. I’m more at the stage of like, please just don’t tell me? I mean I know my town has sex shops and I’m not offended by them. If I don’t want to go in, I don’t have too. Its not forced on me, and Its not like they have “secret” kink items at TRU. Which is kinda what tumblr does.

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